Discussions I've participated in

Hi all, So my fiance has a sister and I have a brother and we both want them to feel included but don't necessarily want them in the wedding party itself. Would having them be an Honorary Bridesmaid...

So, I am getting married in April - I have plenty of time to think about this. My father & I haven't had a relationship for about a decade, but I am cordial with him so as not to upset my mother. I DO...

Hi everyone, I've been with my fiance for 2.5 years. We fell in love fast and moved in within 6 months of knowing each other. On our 1 year anniversary he proposed and we were so happy. Fast forward...

That is the question! My fiance and I have been engaged for almost a year and a half now, and we're really struggling with deciding how we want to celebrate our marriage. With my fiance's family on...

What are your thoughts on plastic vs glass plates?

Okay, I need some major advice. I have been engaged for about two months and soaking up every minute of it. We are just getting around to the planning process and looking to have a tiny, intimate...

This week we're playing "most likely to..." - wedding guest edition! We all have that one friend or family member who can be a bit over the top at parties and events. Some may even go to the extreme...

Hey guys! So me and my FH have been together for almost exactly 6 years now (high school sweethearts). Our anniversary is Nov 2, 2012. And we have always dreamed of getting married on our anniversary...

Hello! I’m new here. I got engaged on August 5th and am still in the early stages of planning lol. We are having a private destination wedding in Jamaica on June 9th, 2019 with just the two of us. We...

Ok we already know there are differing opinions on cash bars. My question is not about whether or not it's ok to have a cash bar. But if the bride and groom could not afford to pay for alcohol for...

There is a venue that we really like, the only issue is the the maximum capacity for the seating is 160 mean while our guest list is 350 (expecting maybe 280 to rsvp and show up), which is inside. We...

Hi all, I was wondering....what is the preferred or most polite methoid of communication with vendors? I've texted/called/emailed/sent Facebook messages to vendors depending on convenience. Sending...

Hi All, I am a bridesmaid in a wedding party at the end of December. It is a quickly planned wedding (~2 months) as the groom is military. They are relocating in January to another state and they are...

Hi! Do you have any suggestions on guestbook alternatives? I understand guestbooks and how they had/have an importance, but I am not sure that I want one for our wedding, but maybe that's because I am...

I'm not changing my name when I get married next year. I've seen recommendations to let people know through how they are announced at the wedding and through signing Thank Yous with both of our last...

I want to send gifts to my bridesmaids but I am not sure If you send them before the wedding or after the wedding lol. I'm so new to this...

Hi everyone, Have any of you heard of the bride and/or groom taking pictures (before the wedding) with her bridal party? Do any of you think this is tacky, or unnecessary? Best to wait until the...

Anyone else have a small bridal party? I have a maid of honor and one bridesmaid who is my future husbands daughter. I feel pretty low about it but then again I don’t want anyone who isn’t fully there...

So, I was originally suppose to be the maid of honor of my friends wedding, but a month ago I got a text saying I will not be the maid of honor but the bridesmaid instead. We aren't as close as we use...