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Happily married 🎉
February 18, 2023
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678 days agoWhat were the best wedding favors you ever received and why? And which one was the worst? I had a lively discussion about this with my mother and it got me curious. My personal top three are: 1) custom printed glass cup with a cool design. The...
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697 days agoMy best friend is happy to be my “friend-of-honor”! They identify as androgynous/non-binary so we’re still trying to come up with a good “official” title (open to ideas please). We need some help on finding attire. For reference, my friend’s daily...
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717 days agoI’m seriously considering getting a therapist because of all the stress coming out of wedding planning. A part of me feels it’s justified, another part says it’s frivolous. A lot of the stress is not the wedding itself per se, but what the impending...
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757 days agoThis is just a rant because I’m so tired of have to closely work with immature passive-aggressive people. It’s like highschool all over again and I absolutely hated highschool! My workplace has mostly women, of whom most are single and actively mate...
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757 days agoI came across some wedding etiquette tips that suggested it was rude to ask a guest/relative to perform for one’s wedding. It got me wondering about something we’ve been discussing for ours. One of my cousins is a professional singer of some renown....
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784 days agoI’m having some weird anxiety over apparently doing things out of order. A lot of sites have checklists and timelines…I know they’re recommendations and not hard and fast rules but I can’t help but get worried. We’re getting married in a year (date...
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802 days agoI’m venting here because me being “officially” engaged is apparently a huge gamechanger for my Mom. She’s obviously trying to compensate or keep up with the Joneses through me. We have yet to have a hard boundaries conversation because she keeps...
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824 days agoDisclaimer: I need to say this upfront but “Tell them it’s your day, not theirs!” and “You’re the one paying for it!” is not going to be the answer for me. It’s ignoring a lot of cultural background and baggage. I received some really rude and...