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Our day was amazing, but I am so happy and relieved that it’s over with lol! Leading up to the wedding, I was so anxious... for nothing, since everything turned out great. There’s a few things I would give advice on. 1. We had 5 girls getting makeup...

We want to send our thank you cards out soon. I will write them all by hand. Is it alright if I write the same message to almost each person? Pretty much all our gifts were money. Thanks in advance!

Already had my wedding and waiting on pro pics. We went to a salon and we all hated our hair, and tried to fix it when we got back. I have short hair and asked for loose waves - instead I got flat hair with stiff, tight curls starting a third of the...

I know this has been discussed, but anyone else a little disappointed in their final numbers? Our wedding is on a Saturday and not during Labor Day weekend, so I was hoping most everyone could make it. Plus, our venue has a 15k food and drink minimum...

We will be meeting with our venue Tuesday, and our due date for rsvps is Monday. Is it appropriate to call on Monday if we didn’t get their rsvp? Maybe some people sent it the day of and we wouldn’t see it in the mail for a few days. It’ll help when...

We are having an open bar and my parents’ friends are coming, and so are some of their kids. I am not sure their ages, but my mom said it doesn’t matter, because I will have to pay for them anyways for the bar. In your experience, do you have to pay...

I am getting married in a church and it’s preferred I have my shoulders covered. I really don’t want a veil, I feel it takes away from the dress. I have been trying to look at some cover ups/wraps but I don’t see anything I like. Any suggestions? I...

Am I the only one who used the American flag stamp? I bought them the last day before the prices went up. I am also handwriting the the addresses on the envelopes. Just wondering if I am the only one out there lol

Just want to hear opinions on these if you’ve used them. I have seen mixed reviews on the envelopes staying closed. Did the stickers that they came with work? Did guests like these? Also, did you order the standard or value paper and how durable is...

Ok there are two parts to this. A small part of our team is in the office that I am at, but there is one guy that I don’t work with at all really, and he doesn’t come to the office much. I see him maybe once a month if that, and we just say hi. Since...

I am wearing a strapless dress. I have never waxed my armpits and I was told that for the wedding, you should do it a couple times before the actual day. Is it better to just keep shaving or to wax? I don’t want any redness, ingrown hairs, or...

I just don’t want to have a wedding. It’s too much pressure and I hate being the center of attention. The closer I get, the less I want a wedding, and I don’t think my feelings will change much. We would lose close to 15k if we cancel now (and we are...

Any brides not wear a veil and regret it? I am really leaning towards NOT wearing one, I feel like it doesn’t go with my dress and my hair (a little past my collar bone). But it is very “bridal” and I see some very pretty pictures/poses with a veil...

How did your food tasting go and is it common to do it with random couples? Our venue is pretty expensive and we scheduled our food tasting next month, and we might be paired with 2 other couples if they picked the same time slot as us (Saturday so...

I am getting married in summer. I cut my hair short last year to my chin and I think I will do it again, it looks good with my dress when I went shopping. I am going for a sleek bob.. think dua lipa. Does anyone have any tips for keeping hair...