Activity for Jessie

I'm not inviting every wedding guest to my shower. Is this okay? I wanted it to be more intimate. Closer friends and family. My FMIL is paying for it. It's on april 26th. My FH's grandma (who I'm close with but does not get along with FMIL) thought...

Hey ladies, I'm looking for a cute pair of flats to wear on the big day. Any ideas where to get them from? Anyone have pictures? I need inspiration!

What was/is your beauty plan? Timeline leading up to and day of? Any beauty tips for the big day?

Did you and your FH get gifts for anyone? If so, who? What and when did you give them them? Did you and your FH buy separate gifts for people? (I already got my bridesmaids gifts when I did their "proposals" and plan on buying them pearl necklaces...

We're getting married in June and are not going on a honeymoon right away. We're still taking a week off after to relax and have our mini honeymoon. I still want it to be fun and romantic though. Any ideas on things to do?

When did you get your dress altered? How long did it take. I'm getting married June 12th this year. Do I have time? I'm worried about an influx in my weight between getting it altered and the wedding.