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My name is Suzie and my fiancé’s name is Rob. We’ve been together for two and a half years, and are planning our wedding for October 11, 2020!

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October 11, 2020

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October 2020 Couples!!
Suzie in Community Conversations, on January 7, 2020 at 8:06 PM

Where are my October 2020 couples?! What’s your date? What colors did you choose? How are you personalizing your day? Share your details! We are October 11, 2020! Our colors are white, dusty...

Jessica, Apr 6, 2020 390 5,320 42
Weight Loss After Ordering Dress
Suzie in Wedding Attire, on March 2, 2020 at 8:01 PM

More of a panic and rant... I ordered my dress in September true to size, and have since lost 30 pounds, and counting (yay!). I plan on losing at least 30 more by our wedding day (hopefully), but am...

Suzie, Mar 3, 2020 4 137
Wedding Planning Obsessions
Suzie in Community Conversations, on February 3, 2020 at 6:11 PM

What are your wedding planning obsessions?! For me it’s WW forums (of course lol), and watching Four Weddings and Say Yes to the Dress. I also buy wedding magazines everywhere I find them, so much...

Theadra, Feb 7, 2020 35 189 1
J&j Party
Suzie in Parties and Events, on February 4, 2020 at 8:44 PM

Did you have a J&J to raise money for your wedding? FH and I disagree on this idea. He had one for his first wedding, and he said they broke even and doesn’t think it’s worth it. So many people I...

Melle, Feb 5, 2020 13 197
Charge for Cake Tasting?
Suzie in Planning, on January 25, 2020 at 10:11 PM

I spoke with a local baker about cake tastings, and she said they charge $25 for one. I found this really off putting, and it makes me not even want to try them. We went to a group cake...

Melle, Jan 27, 2020 25 298
Changing your last name? Why/why not?
Suzie in Etiquette and Advice, on October 7, 2019 at 8:37 PM

Hey everyone. I am on the fence about whether or not to change my name. FH is not pushing it at all, and in fact is encouraging me not to. His last name is long and complicated, no one pronounces it...

Suzie, Jan 22, 2020 84 791 2
Votive Candle Holders
Suzie in Style and Décor, on January 21, 2020 at 9:31 PM

Does anyone have a good source for buying votive candle holders in bulk? And possibly votive candles. I’d like about 3-4 per table, and we will likely have 10-12 tables, and the ones I’ve found so far...

Melle, Jan 22, 2020 9 88
How far out were your shower and bach?
Suzie in Parties and Events, on January 13, 2020 at 11:04 AM

How far out from your wedding did you/will you have your shower and bach party? Two of my BMs live in different states, but are both available to come up mid June. My MOH asked if I would want to do...

KAREN, Jan 15, 2020 19 138
Save the Dates!
Suzie in Do It Yourself, on December 27, 2019 at 8:52 PM

Finally have our Save the Dates printed out! Etsy template $15!! My fiancé works at a print shop, so it only cost us $6 to print them out!

Mandi, Jan 13, 2020 12 153
Cancelling Friend as dj
Suzie in Planning, on January 6, 2020 at 7:52 PM

I have a friend I’ve known for 15 years who DJs on the side, but it’s not his full-time job. When we got engaged we spoke with him about being our DJ, and he offered us a wicked discount. I am now...

Suzie, Jan 7, 2020 12 138
Sandals Jamaica Booked!
Suzie in Honeymoon, on January 2, 2020 at 8:54 PM

We just booked our honeymoon for nine nights at Sandals Negril in Jamaica! Seven mile beach!! Has anyone been? I am so excited!! Paradise Honeymoon Beachfront Beachfront balcony viewSandals Negril ...

Suzie, Jan 3, 2020 11 140
Sandals St. Lucia or Jamaica
Suzie in Honeymoon, on December 29, 2019 at 2:40 PM

We are looking into Sandals resorts in either St. Lucia or Jamaica. Hawaii was my dream, but it’s too expensive. We heard St. Lucia is the “Hawaii of the Caribbean” so def has that appeal. Has anyone...

Anthony, Dec 30, 2019 5 108 3
Picked Bms Dresses!
Suzie in Wedding Attire, on December 29, 2019 at 10:33 AM

I finally decided on MOH and bridesmaids dresses! I was going back and forth on the colors, thinking plum and dusty rose, but got the final inspiration from my Save the Dates! Originally wanted them...

Suzie, Dec 29, 2019 4 76
Etsy Templates for Stds & Invites
Suzie in Do It Yourself, on November 18, 2019 at 9:01 PM

Has anyone used Etsy to download a digital template for Save the Dates and invitations? Wondering how they came out, if so. FH works at the print shop where we work, so we will be printing our own to...

Suzie, Nov 19, 2019 9 104
Any ww brides?
Suzie in Fitness and Health, on November 10, 2019 at 5:29 PM

I just joined Weight Watchers today, the digital (online only) option. I am at my largest size ever, and even though FH loves me as is, I would like to lose about 70 pounds before the wedding. I am...

Lashona, Nov 17, 2019 5 111
Hawaii Honeymoon
Suzie in Honeymoon, on October 29, 2019 at 8:38 PM

I have always dreamed of honeymooning in Hawaii, but upon quick look, it sounds like it’s going to be super expensive! We spoke to a travel agent who said a honeymoon-grade hotel for a week would cost...

Melle, Oct 31, 2019 28 349
One Year Out! 10/11/20!
Suzie in Planning, on October 11, 2019 at 2:33 PM

Where are my 10/11/20 couples!! We are officially one year away! 366 days and counting - Leap year! So exciting!! 😍

Clíodhna, Oct 15, 2019 5 30
Found my dress!
Suzie in Wedding Attire, on September 28, 2019 at 8:05 PM

Today I said Yes to the Dress!! I burst into tears as soon as I had it on in the dressing room. It was such an incredible feeling 🥰 Third dress I tried on! Did not expect to purchased today, I am...

Suzie, Oct 14, 2019 25 243
Florist- how much leeway did you give?
Suzie in Planning, on October 10, 2019 at 8:46 PM

We had our first florist consultation today, and overall I think it went well. The woman was super friendly, and seemed to get the overall vision I am looking for. My concern is that I went in with a...

MOB So Cal, Oct 13, 2019 17 206
Florist - when to hire
Suzie in Planning, on October 7, 2019 at 8:09 PM

Hi all! I am wondering when everyone hired their florist. I called one place that told me they don’t meet with brides until 4-5 months before the date, which seems so late! She said they need swatches...

Suzie, Oct 8, 2019 10 89
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