Discussions by Soon2Bemarried

So I keep hearing that the people who I send my engagement pics to must also be invited to the wedding. Im not aware of this tradition, as those around me are telling me it exists and should be...

Hi Wedding Wire Family! I’m currently in a pickle and please don’t judge me for what I’m about to say (lol). But, I’m not really close with my future sister in law at all. When we see each other we...

Im such an excited soon to be bride I can’t help but look (just about once a week) at different dresses from the company I want to buy my wedding dress from. But I’m minimally 1 year out from my...

There are varying degrees of this. What was your experience? Does ‘sharing’ expenses to you mean splitting equally, splitting based on your income or ‘I pay this fully you pay that fully’ ? We both...

Did you wait to see each other at the aisle or did you get a sneak peek of your spouse before your ceremony began? Photographer is now asking us which we prefer for portraits and I’m undecided.

I’ve secured both the ceremony and reception venue space but don’t know when’s a good time to make the wedding website.

Did you and your partner discuss who, if no both, would take care of/manage the upkeep of the home? Scheduling Doc’s appointments, doing grocery shopping and laundry, cleaning, cooking/meal prepping,...

Did you go into your relationship knowing you didn’t want any kids? When’s too early to have the conversation about having them? Was that a deal breaker?

If my partner and my immediate family dont vibe and never did, is that my own fault? I’ve bizarrely been told told that if I prioritized them having a relationship with each other then I would have...

How do you properly and politely convey to your step parent that you do not want their participation financial or otherwise in your wedding plans, other than attending the wedding ceremony and...

Wedding Cake vs. dessert spread DJ vs. Spotify/Apple Playlist Cocktail Reception vs. Traditional sit down dinnerWedding Guest Book vs Marriage Advice Jar(s)What other things did you swap to make your...

Did you and your partner buy them for each other together? How long did you wait before the big day to buy your wedding bands?

Are couple’s shower’s a recent trend? Does anyone know about this. Pros & cons?

Are bridal showers still only for women? My parents and grandparents told me baby showers used to only be a women’s event as well. Anywho, if I have a male coworker of childhood guy friends would it...

How do the working mom’s balance work and maintaining your household? If you had kids before or after you were married, did that make anything easier or harder? My fiancé and I have been discussing...

Has anyone had a Cocktail Wedding Reception? What are the pros and cons? We’re You able to cut costs dramatically vs a traditional sit down wedding reception (with the dinner included)? Advice, tips...

My future MIL loves both her son and I, but I have a weird feeling that she feels like I’m taking her son away from her. I only started feeling this way since we got engaged. She’ll never verbalize...

How did you decide, if you did at all, who gets a plus one? Are married couples priority over single people and people in relationships? Did you base the plus one off how long the person was in a...