Discussions by Martha

Our day was amazing, but I am so happy and relieved that it’s over with lol! Leading up to the wedding, I was so anxious... for nothing, since everything turned out great. There’s a few things I...

We want to send our thank you cards out soon. I will write them all by hand. Is it alright if I write the same message to almost each person? Pretty much all our gifts were money. Thanks in advance!

Already had my wedding and waiting on pro pics. We went to a salon and we all hated our hair, and tried to fix it when we got back. I have short hair and asked for loose waves - instead I got flat...

I know this has been discussed, but anyone else a little disappointed in their final numbers? Our wedding is on a Saturday and not during Labor Day weekend, so I was hoping most everyone could make...

We will be meeting with our venue Tuesday, and our due date for rsvps is Monday. Is it appropriate to call on Monday if we didn’t get their rsvp? Maybe some people sent it the day of and we wouldn’t...

We are having an open bar and my parents’ friends are coming, and so are some of their kids. I am not sure their ages, but my mom said it doesn’t matter, because I will have to pay for them anyways...

I am getting married in a church and it’s preferred I have my shoulders covered. I really don’t want a veil, I feel it takes away from the dress. I have been trying to look at some cover ups/wraps but...

Am I the only one who used the American flag stamp? I bought them the last day before the prices went up. I am also handwriting the the addresses on the envelopes. Just wondering if I am the only one...

Just want to hear opinions on these if you’ve used them. I have seen mixed reviews on the envelopes staying closed. Did the stickers that they came with work? Did guests like these? Also, did you...

Ok there are two parts to this. A small part of our team is in the office that I am at, but there is one guy that I don’t work with at all really, and he doesn’t come to the office much. I see him...

I am wearing a strapless dress. I have never waxed my armpits and I was told that for the wedding, you should do it a couple times before the actual day. Is it better to just keep shaving or to wax? I...

How did your food tasting go and is it common to do it with random couples? Our venue is pretty expensive and we scheduled our food tasting next month, and we might be paired with 2 other couples if...

I just don’t want to have a wedding. It’s too much pressure and I hate being the center of attention. The closer I get, the less I want a wedding, and I don’t think my feelings will change much. We...

Any brides not wear a veil and regret it? I am really leaning towards NOT wearing one, I feel like it doesn’t go with my dress and my hair (a little past my collar bone). But it is very “bridal” and I...

I am getting married in summer. I cut my hair short last year to my chin and I think I will do it again, it looks good with my dress when I went shopping. I am going for a sleek bob.. think dua lipa....

I will start off by saying that if a vendor doesn’t respond to me within a couple business days, I move on and do not follow up. That says a lot to me about how they manage their business. Does anyone...

My venue let’s us stay until 12:45 and I was not planning to have an “end” or a send off, just have people leave until there’s just a few of us left at 1 am lol.. but as I am reading here, it looks...

How did you guys go about getting music for a very diverse group? We are thinking about getting a DJ to play popular English/American dance music that we like, and also getting a live band as well, as...

What did you do with your flowers when the reception is done? Did guests take the flowers and vases home, and how did you notify them that they could? Did you have to pack them up and bring them home?...