Discussions by Michelle

Shout out to the nearly 8000 of us in the final count down? Anyone else feel like their brains are exploding with anxiety and things not-yet-done, but also so exhausted from planning??

We are getting a 1/2 sheet cake and 4 pies for 50 people. Is this enough?

Our coordinator (day of) is also the property manager of our venue (its a big house property that does weddings). So we're staying there and have all wedding events there. According to him, he works...

Just venting. FH and I have just had no end, it seems, to problems relating to ourselves, people we love, and the wedding. We've been together for 9 years, we've really been so excited for this...

Hi! Am I making a huge mistake? We aren't planning on programs or a sign version of a program. We have a website (which has only info about the wedding and us - nothing about wedding party), and a...

So it's a month out before the wedding and I've officially lost my mind. Also having intense amounts of drama and crazy life events happening all over. My mom and one of my best friends have recently...

Do you think its strange to include young photos of grandparents? Or better to do older ones, as you remember? FH knew his grandparents until they passed. My maternal grandmother died when my mom was...

Hi! FH is probably the biggest Top Gun fan in the world. While cheesy, I think he would think it was really cute if I snuck in a Top Gun quote in my vows. Anyone have any suggestions on what to...

So this is dumb drama. Most of our families are very conservative. Groom thinks now we need to be more traditional. We have 2 flower girls (6 and 7) and a ring bearer (6) who are all siblings. The...

Hi! We want to do a sand ceremony with sand from our respective areas we grew up in. Is it legal to bring sand (real sand) into Hawaii (Oahu). We haven't been able to find anything definitive. Thanks!...

Hi! We're having a destination wedding in Hawaii. My friends' kids will be there and will be 6 and 7. Since they are the flower girls and ring bearer (2 are twins), we wanted to have a welcome gift...

Just posting to rant, really. Had my bridal shower Saturday. My mom, godmother, and friend went all out with decorating and planning. Minus the 4 of us, only 4 people came. My mom invited over 30....

I want to get my dressed pressed before the wedding in Oahu. Does anyone have any recommendations?

Hi! My bridal shower is this weekend. I'm now second guessing what I was going to wear. I bought this dress from Lulus, but now I'm worried it may be way too formal for a casual afternoon bridal...