Discussions by Kara

My wedding happened recently. It went really, really badly. The ceremony was beautiful but it all went wrong from there. My dress was absolutely destroyed in the mud, it poured on me and my fiancé...

One of my best friends from college got married last August. I went to her bachelorette party and her wedding (we live in different states) - my fiancé and I spent about $5,000 total. We gave a...

I’m looking over my contract for my wedding planner and found that she said she charges $2,000 to NOT post any photos from our wedding OR to get prior approval. I don’t really care but am...

We are getting married in a year and have not yet sent invitations. One of my husband’s former colleagues (who he used to be best-ish friends with) lives on the other side of the country. He is...

My friend from college and I are in a group of 4 girls total. Basically all 4 of us are planning our weddings at the same time, but she is getting married first due to living in Texas/less COVID...

We are planning our wedding for fall 2022. My parents offered to host it at their home (they live on a farm near us with many acres and it’s absolutely gorgeous) and me and DH both get along very well...

So this is kind of an odd situation. We are planning our wedding loosely for fall 2021, so quite a bit away due to COVID. My fiancé’s friend from college (more distant friend as time goes on) is...

I’m getting married officially (we’re already married from a cruise but don’t really act as though we’re married and not many people know so this is our legit wedding) in a year and a half. My fiancé...

I’m planning my wedding for summer 2021. My fiancé has a few childhood friends who got married last year (before we were engaged and a month before we were set to move in together) and who didn’t...

I've posted about parts of this situation before, but it's really spiraling out of control and I'd appreciate any feedback at all! My fiance's family grew up being best friends with another family. I...

We have chosen not to invite a family FH was close with growing up: while the parents haven’t done anything, I’ve only met the mother once in 4 years and we generally don’t talk to them anymore. The...

Wondering if you guys could give me some insight on this plus one situation. We're having a pretty large wedding (250 people) and are really tight on the numbers (we're about to be over already). We...

I'm getting married to a wonderful man in a little under a year. My fiance's friend got married a little under 2 years ago after we had been together for almost two years. I had met the couple and...