My friend from college and I are in a group of 4 girls total. Basically all 4 of us are planning our weddings at the same time, but she is getting married first due to living in Texas/less COVID restrictions.
She just asked people to be her bridesmaids. It’s her sister, her two cousins, and the two other girls in our group.
I’m feeling kind of hurt. We aren’t super close anymore because we all live in different areas, but I still wouldn’t have asked all of the group except one. I was planning on doing all of them or none.
I’m also kind of confused because she had tried to ask about being a bridesmaid in my wedding multiple times. I wasn’t even considering this because we haven’t seen all of each other for a year because of COVID until she asked.
I can definitely get over my hurt feelings I’m just worried that both the bachelorette party and the wedding will be super awkward now. They have been posting all over social media (like, 200+ posts in an album + multiple Instagram posts of her asking them at brunch) and I don’t see that stopping during the dress fittings, planning, etc. it just feels like kinda of a slap in the face because she didn’t even mention anything to me.
I know there’s absolutely nothing I can do about it, I guess I just needed to vent to people who don’t know who I’m talking about and won’t tell them
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