Discussions by Haley

Is anyone else kind of sad that you don't have your normal yearly vacation because you're taking a honeymoon? Obviously I'll have a great time on my honeymoon and am very excited to go on it. But for...

Two Questions: Just curious.....I'm seeing a lot of ya'lls BAS pictures and I never see any grandmas or older ladies. Are they not coming to the shower? I'm very close with my grandma and FH is very...

I have multiple questions: 1. Can you pick and choose who gets a plus one? As of right now, my wedding party all gets plus ones, and then any of my friends who are in a relationship. I don't really...

When you're introduced as Mr. & Mrs. John Smith at the reception, what do you do if your husband is a Jr and does NOT EVER go by his first name ever? Pretend his name is John Tim Smith Should we...

I'm still over a year away from the wedding but I want to send out my STD in Jan. (again, I realize this is 5 months away) When did you stop adding to the guest list? If you recently made new friends...

What are your opinions on mixing gold and silver? My "theme"/vibe is antique/vintage. I have silver platters for dessert and hors d'oeuvres. My table numbers are antique looking gold picture frames...

If you write your own vows, do you still say the part that's like "do you take this man in sickness and in health, richer or poorer, etc....."?

Hey guys! I've never been in a wedding or planned one before. Next weekend I'm having a sleepover with all my bridesmaids so they can meet and get to know each other and just have fun. My MOH is kind...

We are getting married like 10 minutes from our house. We are inviting about 115 people. Everyone we are inviting lives basically within 2.5 hours. Most of people live locally or within 1 hour. No one...

How many friends are you inviting? Our total guest count right now is 115. ABOUT 25 of those are friends, including the 10 in our wedding party. Adding their +1, it's about 35 friends. Everyone else...

If you are inviting someone and they're engaged, do you invite Jane Smith & Guest or Jane Smith & John Doe? Does it matter how well you know the fiance? Like if you know them well, write their...

We are wanting to go to Nashville for a few days (where we got engaged) and stay in the hotel where he proposed. After that, I'm thinking of doing a cabin in gatlinburg/pigeon forge for a few days....

Does anyone else feel like some of these website planning timelines are off? I'm on WW, The Knot, and Zola (I just like to mix it up) and the timelines all start around 1 year out. I got engaged in...

Still in the planning process here. My wonderful FH has 0 opinions on anything haha. Is there anything that your grooms wished they'd had a say in after the fact? Anything that the grooms didn't think...

We are having about 120 people at our wedding. We are both inviting most of our cousins and all aunts/uncles, grandparents. I have a cousin who I was close with years ago when her kids were born (they...

I have a hair/makeup girl that I use and she says she can do 5 bridesmaids plus me by herself. I know this will take a while but it's in my budget and I think it would be fine. However, I am getting...

Yall......Can I have burgundy tablecloths with burgundy bridesmaid dresses? I am just now realizing this might be a little too much burgundy. OR will no one notice this and I'm being crazy?

Remember when people would throw rice at the bride/groom as they left the church? Do people do this anymore? Everyone does send-off pics (mostly with sparklers. I'm not 100% interested in doing that...