fh is a Jr...how to introduce us at reception?

No one will care except the two of you.

I say do whatever you want, but I'd lean toward just Mr. and Mrs. Smith to avoid any confusion.

I would go by either Mr. & Mrs. John Smith Jr. or Mr. & Mrs. Tim Smith.

There's lots of Jrs that go by their middle names and I'm sure many people wouldn't think twice about it.

Nobody minds but you two! Go by first names if it's a casual wedding even!

Usually you're introduced by how you want everyone to call you. So if you weren't taking his last name this is a great way to let your guests know. In your case, you would both be introduced by the name you use instead of the legal name so if he uses his middle name (as I do) then he would be introduced as Mr. Tim Smith. So your introduction could be "Mr. Tim and Mrs. Jane Smith."

I guarantee we won't be using his legal first name and use his nickname instead.

Thankfully my FH isn't a jr but there are about a million Tom's at our wedding. Thomas Sr., Thomas Jr., Thomas III and even Thomas IV so we are introducing them as such. And you can be sure that we aren't naming our first son Thomas V lol!

We are being introduced like this "For the first time tonight ladies and gentlemen the bride and groom" his sister and I have the same name so I don't want to be introduced with my new name last name because to me it would be weird.

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I might decide to go this way if I feel like his dad will be offended we don't use his REAL name.

Go with whatever works for you! We were introduced as Mr. And Mrs. John and Jane Smith.

So my FH and I have a similar situation. His name is James Aarron Caudill but goes by Aarron. And his dad is also James. So we are being announced how everyone knows him! Mr. and Mrs. Aarron Caudill!

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I think that's what I'm going to do!

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I kind of like how the Mr. and Mrs. John Smith Jr. sounds. Its unique.