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So here’s our schedule for wedding weekend: Friday: going to work during the day (ugh, but need to save PTO for honeymoon lol) bachelor/bachelorette parties at night Saturday: getting last minute...

We wanted 100 people initially but are up to 117 now (which is fine since some probably won’t come) and or venue has a limit of 150 so it’s not a space issue, just a $ issue since it’s...

Alright, so we’re getting married on a Sunday afternoon, at a local Inn that has 20 guest rooms. Since we are getting married there, they’ve blocked out the entire Inn for the whole weekend (Friday...

We are only having 100 people so my initial thought is not to have anyone from work... plus I don’t want to feel like I have to have my “work face” on all night. I still feel this way, but today FH...

Any other NJ brides know what needs to be brought into the county clerk’s office to apply for our marriage license? I know you need your social security information, but do you just need to know the...

We’re trying to make a playlist for our reception and it just occurred to us that so many songs that we like are actually about people breaking up... is it weird to play these at a wedding??? Or is it...

So I posted a couple days ago about how it was supposed to rain on the day of our engagement photos (tomorrow) and that’s still looking like the case, though it’s not supposed to start raining until...

After much debating and researching, FH and I have decided on Italy for our 9 day honeymoon next June. We are intending to be in Northern/Central Italy to hit the highlights (Venice, Florence, Rome,...

We’ve been engaged for 7 months and still haven’t had our engagement photos done... we’re supposed to do a sunset beach photo shoot this Saturday which I was SO excited about but now the forecast is...

What did you all list as FAQs on your wedding website? So far we have “what time should we arrive?” “What should we wear?” “Can we use our phones/cameras?” And “will there be an open bar?” Any other...

What are your takes on what type of trip a honeymoon should be? I'm torn between wanting to explore somewhere unique and exciting, versus just lying on a beach somewhere haha. What are you all doing,...

Alright, so FH and I FINALLY agreed on a color scheme! We always knew we wanted turquoise to be the main color, but couldn’t agree on what colors to use as accents. We decided now to use a faded light...

Our first issue with people asking to be invited has arrived and it’s a tough one! FH’s best man just texted saying that his mom really wants to come to our wedding. For some context, I have never met...

So I love love love being on vacation in new places but I also hate the act of traveling itself... I have really bad anxiety and the stress of traveling always gets to me really badly. We’re trying to...

I know the MOH and BM are supposed to give speeches at the reception, but what about others? Are the bride and groom supposed to say something? Some family members? What are you guys planning?

Finally finished booking all my big vendors a couple weeks ago! So relieved to have that stuff taken care of. But now I’m dying to start planning the little details (centerpieces, invitation...

Hey guys, so FH and I originally wanted to have a small, destination beach wedding but of course we ended up expanding our guest list, wanting to be closer to home (for easier access, $, and...

Just curious why people do either way!

We’ve really been struggling to find an officiant and then I started to realize that the ceremony would be so much better if our officiant were someone we knew well, rather than someone we just found...