Discussions by Amanda

Just wondering what you all have left to do, what you've completed, what you're most excited about!! We still have quite a few things to complete! I keep thinking "oh we're almost finished!" And then...

I asked my sister to be MOH, and my oldest and best friend to be a bridesmaid, mostly because I assumed you couldn't have two. But now I'm feeling like I should have asked them both to be MOHs because...

We aren't having a ring bearer. So who is in charge of getting the rings down the aisle? Best man and MOH? Where would the rings typically be before the ceremony anyway?

I don't know if I have too many or not enough because I don't know what the average number of items is! How many items are on your registry?

FH and I don't take many photos of ourselves. We don't have fb or any other social media. So we have no idea how to pose for photos. Our engagement session is coming up soon and I'm worried we will...

My dress is supposed to come in soon. My wedding is in about 4 months. I'm losing some weight so I will probably need my dress to be taken in, and I also plan to add sleeves, and the skirt will need...

I'm trying to budget things out and get quotes for things like catering, drinks, and cake. I know I have to feed my vendors but should I also budget for drinks for them? I'm assuming because they're...

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We are getting some pretty expensive quotes ($1000!) for a cake for about than 70-75 guests. Is that normal? How much did you pay/are you paying? This has probably been my biggest WTF moment in...

I decided to not have any of FH's sisters in my bridal party (he has 4 sisters, and I wanted a small BP). They said they were fine with it, which was great. The thing is, I totally wouldn't mind if...

I know the norm is not to include the whole address, just the name of the ceremony place and the city. However, when you search on google for the ceremony venue it doesn't immediately appear, and for...

There's a dress I LOVE! Only problem is they only go up to sz 16, I'm size 20 but can also fit into an 18. I know it's much easier to bring a dress in than let it out, but I was wondering, has anyone...

I want to try on a gown that I LOVE but the only sample they have in store is a size 14. I can squeeze my way into an 18, but that's about it. I'm wondering, if there are gowns that are 2 sizes too...

I hate the dress I bought and I don't want to wear it. It's non-returnable and alterations can't fix what I hate about it without redoing the entire dress, so I'm trying to sell it but then I realized...

So I already purchased my gown and I'm picking it up this week. I've been having a couple doubts about it anyway but I've been able to calm them (and the ladies on WW have helped too!). I was telling...

So I'm planning to have a reception/info card in the invitation suite. But I'm unsure what to include in it. We have addresses and directions on our wedding website. We were going to include the...

We are having our wedding when it's going to be pretty cold almost everywhere! The only suggestions we've gotten thus far are to go to Hawaii or Florida (side note: we live in California, so that's...

I've been in contact occasionally with our florist and photographer but how often should I be checking in with all the vendors?