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The Mill Lakeside Manor Team
The Mill Lakeside Manor Team
Wedding Planning Team

Woman-owned

9 years in business

We speak English

Small team (2-10 members)

*Luxury getting-ready suites and indoor lakefront ceremony space are coming soon to The Mill Lakeside Manor! Contact us today to learn more.

Welcome to The Mill Lakeside Manor! We can’t wait to help you plan the wedding of your dreams. Nestled on a private lakeside estate in Spring Lake Heights, New Jersey, our venue is the perfect backdrop for your love story. Whether you’re imagining a romantic garden ceremony by the water, a black tie lakeside affair, or a grand ballroom reception, we are here to make every detail seamless, stress-free, and unforgettable. From the first tour to your last dance, our team is dedicated to bringing your vision to life with warmth, care, and a little bit of magic.

A Glimpse at the Venue:

  • Lakeside Ceremony Space – Exchange vows amid seasonal blooms and lush greenery with the gentle ripple of the lake as your soundtrack.

  • Indoor Ceremony SpaceComing soon to The Mill Lakeside Manor, our indoor ceremony space will feature a breathtaking lakefront view and a romantic, elegantly designed setting, perfect for couples who want the beauty of the outdoors with the comfort of an indoor celebration.

  • Cocktail Hour Room – An elegantly appointed bar with low-seating cocktail tables and an outdoor deck. Guests enjoy indoor and outdoor spaces during cocktail hour all with an incredible lakefront view.

  • Ballroom Reception – Our newly renovated ballroom features large windows, sparkling crystal chandeliers, gold leaf accents, and a coffered ceiling with customizable LED lighting that can match your wedding theme.
  • Private Lakeside Gardens & Panoramic Balcony – Romantic backdrops for wedding photographs and golden-hour portraits.

  • Private Suites – Two private suites for changing and wedding and preparations before your ceremony. *Coming soon, we will be adding a salon and game room for all-day use, giving your wedding party more space to relax, get ready, and enjoy every special moment before the ceremony.

All-Inclusive Package Highlights

  • Exclusive use of the venue, so your wedding is the only celebration of the day

  • 5-hour celebration for up to 240 guests

  • 20+ passed hors d’oeuvres, 3 open kitchen stations, and 7 attended captain’s stations

  • Premium open bar with 14+ wine selections, 20+ beer selections, and up to 3 signature drinks

  • Three-course sit-down meal, wedding cake & traveling treats for dessert

  • Dedicated team with a wedding coordinator, maitre’d, and personal attendant

  • Customizable décor options are all included to make your wedding uniquely yours

Location

Conveniently located in Spring Lake Heights, New Jersey, The Mill Lakeside Manor combines a serene lakeside setting with easy access from North and Central New Jersey. Its beach-town charm provides both intimacy and elegance for your big day. Plus, you’re just minutes from other charming Jersey Shore towns like Spring Lake, Sea Girt, Belmar, and Manasquan, making it easy for your guests to enjoy the coast before or after your wedding.

About Our Family-Owned & Operated Business

As part of Beau Truesdale Wedding Venues, our family-owned team is guided by Family-Centered Hospitality, Inclusivity, and Philanthropy. We treat every couple like they are the only wedding of the day. Beyond creating unforgettable celebrations, we love giving back to our community. Long after your wedding day, you become part of The Mill family, joining us for meaningful events, including charity drives, fundraisers, and more.

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$3,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$3,000

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Lighting/Sound
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

1

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Banquet Hall
Beach
Country/Golf Club
Garden
Mansion
Park
Waterfront

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Aisle Markers
Altar/Arch
Audio Equipment
Centerpieces
Chairs
Dance Floor
Decor
Furniture
Lighting
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Chocolate Fountain
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
July
August
September
October
November

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
December

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Reviews of The Mill Lakeside Manor

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The Mill Lakeside Manor is highly praised by couples for being a stunning wedding venue with exceptional service. Reviewers highlight the beautiful setting by the lake, meticulous gardens, and attentive staff, particularly mentioning standout team members like coordinator Christopher, maitre’d Tyler, and bridal attendant Devon. Guests were impressed with the venue's aesthetics, professional service, and delicious food offerings, including a lavish cocktail hour. The seamless planning process, attention to detail, and overall unforgettable experience make The Mill a top recommendation for couples looking to host their wedding there.

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The Mill Lakeside Manor is highly praised by couples for being a stunning wedding venue with exceptional service. Reviewers highlight the beautiful setting by the lake, meticulous gardens, and attentive staff, particularly mentioning standout team members like coordinator Christopher, maitre’d Tyler, and bridal attendant Devon. Guests were impressed with the venue's aesthetics, professional service, and delicious food offerings, including a lavish cocktail hour. The seamless planning process, attention to detail, and overall unforgettable experience make The Mill a top recommendation for couples looking to host their wedding there.

Weddingwire
4.9/5 313 reviews
Google
4.9/5 473 reviews
Casey
Casey Sent on 02/11/2026
5 out of 5 rating

We love The Mill!

My husband and I started researching wedding venues in January 2025 and stumbled upon The Mill. We had never attended a wedding there but had heard positive reviews from others who had been there before. They were responsive and flexible with our schedule to come and tour the venue. We met Racquel, who answered our many questions and we left the tour being so impressed with the beauty, warmth, and all that’s included when you elect The Mill for your wedding venue. We booked shortly after and from that point forward, The Mill was first-class treatment all the way. The cake and food tastings were incredible. Our parents joined us at the food tasting and we left stuffed and excited for our options! In weeks leading up to the wedding, our coordinator changed to Mya, who was quickly in touch with us and caught up on all the details surrounding our wedding. On our wedding day, Angela was my bridal attendant who was with me every step of the way throughout the day. She bustled my dress and even helped me change my shoes from heels to sneakers! Tyler was our maitre'd and kept all of us on track and organized through the entire day. We had three young flower girls in our wedding party- even they were taken care of by everyone from the kitchen to the event staff. We cannot say enough positive things about our entire day- and our guests are still raving about the food six weeks later! You will not have a single regret if you choose to get married at The Mill!
Katie
Katie Sent on 02/02/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Best Night of my LIFE!!!

THIS PLACE IS AMAZING! I can't say enough good things about the venue. Everyone from the event coordinator to all the staff was so professional, polite and so hardworking. The Mill provided an outstanding night to not only me but every one of my guests. The number of texts I received about the delicious food (there is so much food your guests will be amazed - even offers a second dinner is a one kind experience), incredible service, and how well run of an organization you are proves why they are always booked for weddings. Tyler and the rest of the bridal assistants were fantastic and didn't complain once about going outside in 12-degree weather to hold my dress/belongings. It was the happiest and best nights I will remember forever. I am begging my friends to get married there so I can be a guest. If you are looking for a venue that is a one stop shop for EVERYTHING (decor included) you need to book this venue.
Jenna
Jenna Sent on 12/28/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Best day of our lives!

The Mill Lakeside Manor was the very first venue my husband and I toured, and before we even walked out of the building, we were ready to book it. There is something special about The Mill, we got that feeling immediately and knew it was the one. Our wedding was the best day of our lives, and every part of it was perfect. That wasn’t by fate or coincidence — every member of The Mill’s team goes above and beyond to thoughtfully curate an unforgettable experience. Throughout the planning process, we worked with our wedding coordinator, Christopher, who was kind, helpful, and informative. His clear communication made our 1.5 years of wedding planning smooth and stress-free. We couldn’t have asked for a better experience. For a full circle moment, Christopher was there to greet us on our wedding day and ensure our day started smoothly. Alongside Christopher was our maitre'd, Tyler. Tyler was unbelievable. His calm demeanor, clear communication, and composed approach made our wedding day feel effortless. His presence and guidance was much appreciated not only by my husband and me, but also our parents and our bridal party. Tyler made sure they were all taken care of throughout the day. Devon was my bridal attendant and another standout member of The Mill. She was incredibly patient and attentive, anticipated every need, and was always there to help without hesitation. Almost two months later, our guests are STILL raving about their experience at our wedding. Our parents’ friends are saying it was one of the best weddings they’ve ever attended, and our friends keep sharing their favorite foods from cocktail hour (all different from each other!). On top of that, we received endless compliments about the beautiful venue, the stunning outdoor ceremony space, and the kind, attentive staff who helped make the night extra special. The Mill Lakeside Manor is without a doubt, the best place to have your wedding. My husband and I so desperately want someone we know to get married here so we can experience it as a guest!! Thank you to The Mill and all your staff for helping create such a special, and unforgettable day for us :)
Christina
Christina Sent on 11/23/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Book it, now!

Having our wedding at the Mill was the best decision we could've made and will be thankful for that entire staff for the rest of our lives. Our 18 month engagement was filled with tons of back and forth with Sue - the GREATEST coordinator - who answered every email, phone call, and silly question with true and genuine care.
The day itself was beyond perfect thanks to Sue, Tyler, Ang, and the rest of the Mill staff. Their professionalism made us feel at ease immediately and they all became fast friends quickly! A month later and we still bring up how much we love Ang.
The Mill itself is stunning, the fall foliage & landscaping is so perfect and made a flawless backdrop for our ceremony and photos - elevating every picture. The extras touches and services they provided to our guests left a lasting impression. Not exaggerating, every person that's reached out has confidently said that we had the best wedding they've ever been to in their lives.
THE FOOD is not to be believed. The cocktail hour is not only outrageous (positive) in what they offer but also in the quality of the food. The dinner, and offering seconds also had guests in awe!! Everything was delicious.
The love and effort that the team put into our wedding, and I'm sure every wedding, is so special and helps elevate the happiness and positivity in the air. Our next mission is to get invited to a wedding at the Mill so we can experience it all again as guests!
Thank you all so so much!
Christina & Steve Conrad
Jordan
Jordan Sent on 10/30/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Don't think twice - book The Mill!

There are truly no words to capture how we felt about The Mill! Don't think twice - book The Mill as your wedding venue!! We got married a few weeks ago on 10/10/25, and are still obsessing over how perfect the day was - and so much of that credit goes to The Mill's incredible staff, exceptional service, and beautiful venue.
For starters, the venue is stunning - it is purpose built and they have thought of everything. It is so beautiful having the lake as the backdrop and with the deck off of the cocktail hour room. The cocktail hour room is spacious with ample room with seating and space for mingling. Even the foyer is stunning! My all time favorite is the stunning landscaping which is always looking fresh & well kept. All of the details make the day more seamless than I could have ever imagined.
We were so fortunate to meet with Christopher from on our first tour and even luckier that he became our coordinator. From the start (over a year in advance), Christopher was kind, helpful, and always responsive. He reliably and quickly answered ALL of our endless questions with grace, patience, and professionalism - whether it was vendor recommendations, schedule timing, decor decisions, sending us video clips of the venue when we needed it since we live in the DC area, and much much more. He deserves a huge shoutout and if you get the chance to work with him consider yourself lucky!
Throughout the entire planning process they made us feel at ease as every detail is thought of and addressed. Their attention to detail made it so we didn't even need to hire a wedding planner. Every aspect was handled with care & passion.
The Mill hires the best of the best, because everyone we encountered was incredible, beyond kind, professional, and offered the kind of attentive service that made you & your guests feel like royalty. We had the best day-of team imaginable, with Tyler as our Maitre'd and Devan as my bridal attendant. They were by our sides when we needed them and frequently & gently checked in with us throughout the night to make sure things were on schedule/to see if we needed anything/you name it. All members at The Mill were professional, kind, and genuinely cared about making our day perfect.
As you will hear from anyone that has been to a wedding here, the food is UNMATCHED. They offer a variety cuisines during the cocktail hour and one thing is better than the next! The quality of the dinner options make it hard to choose (we had so much fun at our wedding food tasting to say the least!) - everything is off the charts and they go around offering seconds. After that there's traveling treats for dessert and wedding cake - truly unreal!
Our friends & family are still raving about how much fun they had and how amazing our wedding was. We couldn't imagine celebrating our wedding anywhere else. We would recommend The Mill to anyone who will listen - do yourself a favor and check them out.
E
Eileen Sent on 09/28/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Best wedding day ever!

Had our wedding ceremony and reception at the Mill on 9/14/25, and it was the best decision we ever made! Everything was handled so beautifully by the staff, especially my wedding coordinator Christopher Mierta, my Maitre De Tyler, and Angela who was my bridal attendant. The day went so smoothly, and the day went absolutely perfectly. Everyone was so accommodating and kind, and was able to help me with the planning process along the way with extreme care and precision. The venue is truly stunning, and the ceremony space was so full of flowers it didn’t even need any decorations or additional florals. If I know anyone getting married in the future, I will 100% be recommending the Mill to couples. It was the best day of our lives and we would do it the exact same way if we could relive the day!
A
Alexandria Sent on 09/22/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The Mill gave us the wedding of our dreams

No words can begin to describe how incredible The Mill was to us. From the second we signed the contract to the moment we left the venue on our wedding day, the Mill was with us every step of the way. They responded to every question and email...and made every part of our vision come to life. The venue itself is spectacular and there were too many compliments from our guests to count. The garden, the cocktail hour, the service - all just blew us and our guests away. If you are even remotely type A (like me), rest assured, you can trust your wedding coordinator and maitre d' to give you the exact wedding you want. If you are event remotely hesitant on booking this venue, please book it...you won't regret it. Thank you The Mill for giving us the wedding of our dreams!!


Yesenia
Yesenia Sent on 09/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Gorgeous venue with amazing service

Sue, Tyler and everyone at The Mill went above and beyond for our wedding! Everyone (including our parents) were raving about the service, the special care, and the food. We hope to get invited to a wedding at The Mill to experience it as guests! Even on the busiest, fastest, happiest and most stressful day of your life, they will impress you with the way that they provide everything you need and more. Including emotional support and help putting on your shoes! A gorgeous venue with amazing staff and delicious food.
Allie
Allie Sent on 09/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely Perfect

I truly cannot share enough positive words and praise about our wedding at The Mill. From the moment we had our first tour appointment with Sue, through the final moment of our wedding with Tyler, absolutely everything was perfect. Every part of planning was made so easy working with Sue and she was always there to answer any and all of my questions. Everything went so smoothly and perfectly the day of and I don't think there will be a time when the guests don't stop raving about the cocktail hour and all of the food. I'll be forever telling anyone looking for a wedding venue to visit the Mill - it was a no brainer decision for us and I would do it a million times over!
Andrea
Andrea Sent on 08/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend!!

We had our wedding at the Mill a few weeks ago and it was the most perfect and beautiful day, even better than we imagined. From the beginning, the Mill is so organized and professional. They take care of all of the details so you do not need to worry about anything. They ask questions, are always available to provide advice or help, and ensure that they fully understand your vision. On top of this, everyone we worked with was so friendly, caring, and genuine. Christopher was our wedding coordinator and Tyler our Maitre’d. They both went above and beyond to ensure our day was so special. The day-of ran seamlessly, they were on top of the timeline and kept checking in with us and our guests to ensure everything was perfect. We did not need to worry about anything. The wait staff was so professional and had white glove service that was choreographed. There were not any details they did not consider. Our guests were so impressed by the kindness and professionalism of all staff. They consistently went above and beyond for us throughout the entire process.

In terms of the venue itself - it is beautiful and the food is plentiful and delicious. Cocktail hour in particular is unmatched with the options provided, the way they are presented in stations and traditionally, and with the indoor/outdoor hybrid atmosphere. There is a lot to do and so many beautiful locations on site to explore.The reception area is a beautiful room with high ceilings. There is an outdoor balcony to watch the sunset and plenty of space for guests to mingle. The two bars are large and gorgeous. Desserts are presented as traveling treats (they offer traditional venetian as well), which includes wait staff moving around the room and dance floor with things such as cupcakes, build your own cannoli, and more. Guests had an amazing time and were blown away by the beauty of the venue, food offerings, and attention to detail. Now after the wedding, we are invited to come back for Alumni events and encouraged to keep in touch. We feel so fortunate that we were able to have our special day somewhere as special as the Mill and recommend the venue so highly.
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I can not say enough great things about The Mill. My staff and I are always delighted when a new couple comes in to book and they let us know that this is their venue of choice. The entire staff are a delight to be around, the food is amazing and the grounds are picture perfect. We wish The Mill nothing but continued success!

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The Mill Lakeside Manor frequently asked questions

The Mill Lakeside Manor includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Lighting/Sound
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The Mill Lakeside Manor includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at The Mill Lakeside Manor includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • Open Bar
  • Premium Liquor
  • Signature Drink
  • Specialty Beer
  • Specialty Wine
The space offered by The Mill Lakeside Manor for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Banquet Hall
  • Beach
  • Country/Golf Club
  • Garden
  • Mansion
  • Park
  • Waterfront
The Mill Lakeside Manor offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Mill Lakeside Manor offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
The Mill Lakeside Manor offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
The Mill Lakeside Manor offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Aisle Markers
  • Altar/Arch
  • Audio Equipment
  • Centerpieces
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Decor
  • Furniture
  • Lighting
  • Tables
The Mill Lakeside Manor is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 5 in quality of service, 5 in professionalism, 5 in value, 4.9 in average response time and 4.9 in flexibility.
The Mill Lakeside Manor currently offers 1 offer promotion and 1 discount promotion for wedding services.
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