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My West Michigan Wedding

English
Ceremony Rehearsal
Interfaith
Civil Union

Why couples loved this vendor

  • Seasoned Professional
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Chris
David
Kellie
Kendra
Caitlin

Recommended by 98% of couples

About this vendor

My West Michigan Wedding is a wedding officiation service for couples marrying in the Grand Rapids, Michigan area. Pastor Tom F. Hamel marries couples in the greater Grand Rapids area and lakeshore communities from St. Joseph to Ludington. This officiant is experienced, professional, and honors a couple in the ways they best see fit on their wedding day.

Experience

Tom has performed more than 1,300 weddings since 2005. He knows the ins and outs of a wedding ceremony and helps couples with the understanding that — more often than not — this is all new to them. Through My West Michigan Wedding, he instills confidence in the soon-to-be-newlyweds and keeps the focus on them while celebrating their love.

Services Offered

Ordained and licensed in the state of Michigan as an officiant, Pastor Tom officiates all varieties of weddings. This includes civil unions, vow renewals, rehearsals, and single-religion, interfaith, and non-religious ceremonies. He typically keeps the length of the ceremony under 30 minutes. Couples choosing My West Michigan Wedding will find counseling and assistance with customized vows. This officiant works with agnostic and non-denominational couples, as well as a wide variety of Christian denominations.

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Weddings with this vendor

Ashleigh & Nick's wedding
Ashleigh & Nick
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Hannah & Leo's wedding
Hannah & Leo
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FAQ

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$125

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$100

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

MI

What languages do you speak?

English

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Reviews of My West Michigan Wedding

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Couples rave that the officiant is professional, warm, and calming, quickly easing nerves and personalizing ceremonies. He communicates promptly, handles logistics and paperwork smoothly, and adapts when last-minute issues arise. Guests praised his delivery, humor, and ability to make ceremonies feel intimate and memorable.

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This AI-generated summary gives you a snapshot of the overall ratings and feedback from the reviews this vendor has received.

Couples rave that the officiant is professional, warm, and calming, quickly easing nerves and personalizing ceremonies. He communicates promptly, handles logistics and paperwork smoothly, and adapts when last-minute issues arise. Guests praised his delivery, humor, and ability to make ceremonies feel intimate and memorable.

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Joan Sent on 05/06/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The Very Best Experience

We were recommended to Tom from a website. He was so great. He has a charming, calming way that immediately puts you at ease. He takes you through every step of personalizing your ceremony. We got married May 5 at a country club with about 50 close friends and family. We wanted a spiritual ceremony not religious and it was perfect. All about love. And all about us. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to Tom for your ceremony. He makes the process so easy. So many people commented to me after the wedding about how good he was. Thank you Tom😊❤️Joanie Dobbie
Chris
Chris Sent on 05/11/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Great Service!

Tom was a true professional. We enjoyed his constant communication and he will to get things done for us and our big day! We were happy with how everything turned out and would recommend to others!
David
David Sent on 04/15/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Highly recommend!!!

Tom was fantastic. Process leading up to ceremony was super simple and straight forward. He answered all of our questions and was very helpful. Ceremony was perfect. I would highly recommend Tom and My West Michigan Wedding.
Kellie
Kellie Sent on 03/27/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic!!!

Tom was fantastic to work with! He is extremely professional and as we worked with him was helpful throughout the entire process. We had a few meetings with him over zoom for us to get to know each other and to talk through the details of the ceremony. He offered up advice for options to help with the flow of the ceremony based on his past experience, which ended up making a difference the day of. Overall, we really enjoyed working with Tom, his friendliness, process of helping us laying out the ceremony, and overall execution of leading the ceremony was great. Grateful to have him be a part of our day!
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Jill Sent on 01/04/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Pastor!

Being an older couple who wanted an intimate ceremony in our home we did not have an officiant. I found Tom on The Knot website. His reviews proved what we had hoped for. Tom is kind & caring & performed a ceremony for us that was exactly what we wanted. The planning process allowed us to choose the type of vows we wanted @ Tom walked us though everything with ease. Even our family members were impressed with him. I highly recommend Tom to perform your wedding regardless of the size of your ceremony. We are so grateful!
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Fern Sent on 12/22/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Exceptional Service

Tom was an absolute pleasure to have in our wedding ceremony. We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant, as he helped us breathe and calm down whenever he noticed our nervousness.

Overall, It was a beautiful ceremony! If you’re looking for an officiant please consider My West Michigan Wedding. 
Kendra
Kendra Sent on 11/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

New Vintage Place Wedding

Tom was an amazing officiant for my wedding in October. All my guests and parents raved about him. He does great at helping you feel prepared and calm before going in front of everyone you love. He goes with the flow, listens to what you need and how you feel but when problems arise gives you confidence that everything will be okay. Our DJ didn't show and I found out about 10 min before walking down the isle while signing our marriage license and he handled everything amazing and wanted to make sure that everything was going to be okay. I can not give this man enough glowing reviews!
Caitlin
Caitlin Sent on 10/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing personality

Tom was amazing. He was attentive, kind, knowledgeable, respectful, fast responding, well spoken, professional, well dressed, and easy to get along with. I was extremely nervous and had lots of anxiety. Tom kept making sure I was ok, he made jokes (with my permission) to lighten the mood and make everyone laugh. I had the pleasure of having him at our wedding. He had a form to fill out- personal vows, pre written, prayer vs no prayer, God mentioned vs not. Please give him a chance you will not regret it!!!
S
Sarah Sent on 10/13/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Elopement Ceremony Review

We had a fantastic experience with Tom as our officiant. He is professional, warm, personable, and did a wonderful job with our ceremony! Highly recommend!
Jessica
Jessica Sent on 09/28/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Experience

Tom did an exceptional job officiating our wedding, making our day truly unforgettable. From our first meeting, we were impressed by how Tom took the time to genuinely get to know me and my now-wife, ensuring the ceremony reflected our personalities and values. His warm and professional approach put us at ease, and he crafted a heartfelt ceremony that perfectly captured our love story. Tom’s attention to detail and engaging delivery made the moment special for us and our guests. We highly recommend Tom to anyone seeking a thoughtful and dedicated officiant.
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