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Stephen Downing
Stephen Downing
Owner

LGBTQ+-owned

3 years in business

We speak English

2 team members

About Me

I’m a freelance musician, DJ, and high school band director with multiple degrees in music, including a Ph.D. in Music Composition from Duke University. My compositions have been performed around the world by professional artists, and I continue to write music for concert halls and classrooms. As a DJ, I provide full-service entertainment for weddings and events, covering everything from ceremony to reception music and including venue and dance floor lighting. Whether it’s creating the perfect ambiance or keeping the dance floor packed, I aim to make every event memorable and unique.

With my background in music performance and education, I know how to engage diverse audiences, regardless of their age or background. When you choose me as your DJ, you can expect a refined musical experience that will feel special to you, while also appealing to guests across the generations.

My Philosophy

I believe in fostering an inclusive and welcoming environment for all couples, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, I understand the importance of celebrating love in all its forms. It is my commitment to provide a safe and affirming space where you and your partner can enjoy an unforgettable wedding experience.

As a DJ, I pride myself on maintaining a high level of professionalism, ensuring a seamless and memorable experience for every wedding I am a part of. My planning process is simple, transparent, and flexible, allowing you to fully customize the music selection to suit your preferences. When you book me as your DJ, I do whatever it takes to make sure your event is a success.

Pricing & Deals

$1,200 starting price
$1,500
Average price

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FAQ

What is included in the starting price?

Consultation
Karaoke
MC
Microphones
Travel Expenses
Sound/PA System

What is included in the price of your most popular wedding package?

Consultation
Sound/PA System
Karaoke
MC
Microphones
Travel Expenses

What is the starting price for uplighting?

$300

What music genres do you specialize in?

Country
Electronic
Hip Hop
Indie
International
Jazz
Oldies
Pop
R&B/Soul
Rock
Top 40

What services do you offer?

Consultation
Do-Not-Play List
Karaoke
Liability Insurance
MC
One Event Per Day
Video Projection

What additional equipment do you offer?

Microphones
Sound/PA System
Uplighting

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Reviews of DJ Stephen Downing

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DJ Stephen received overwhelmingly positive reviews for his services at weddings, with multiple reviewers highlighting his professionalism, communication, and ability to create a fun and engaging atmosphere. Couples appreciated his attention to detail, flexibility in song choices, and skill in reading the crowd to keep the dance floor lively. Stephen's inclusive and queer-friendly approach was praised, along with his dedication to meeting the specific needs and preferences of each couple. Many guests at these weddings also complimented the music selection and overall experience, making DJ Stephen a highly recommended choice for weddings and events.

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DJ Stephen received overwhelmingly positive reviews for his services at weddings, with multiple reviewers highlighting his professionalism, communication, and ability to create a fun and engaging atmosphere. Couples appreciated his attention to detail, flexibility in song choices, and skill in reading the crowd to keep the dance floor lively. Stephen's inclusive and queer-friendly approach was praised, along with his dedication to meeting the specific needs and preferences of each couple. Many guests at these weddings also complimented the music selection and overall experience, making DJ Stephen a highly recommended choice for weddings and events.

Lucy
Lucy Sent on 02/04/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible Dj - Wholeheartedly Recommend!

Stephen was so great to work with for our wedding! From our first call with him, we knew that he was dedicated to our vision, and we really appreciated his flexibility throughout the process. His package pricing was customizable to meet the needs of our budget, and his organizing tools allowed us to adjust our timeline / songs / requests as we continued throughout the wedding planning process. He also provided some helpful tips for timeline and setup based on his substantial experience with weddings! He created a song list for dinner and cocktail hour that we absolutely loved and was exactly what we were looking for, and we’ve been listening to it regularly even since the wedding! And multiple guests came up to us during the wedding to say how much they were enjoying the music. Even though we had a smaller wedding, he did a great job of reading guests’ energy and there were always people having a good time on the dance floor!

As a queer couple looking for a DJ to set a tone of celebration and queer joy for the evening, working with Stephen was honestly such a gift. We would absolutely recommend him as a DJ for any event!
Christine
Christine Sent on 12/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing experience!

Stephen was so amazing to work with! We were very particular about the timing of our entrance and first dance songs and he nailed everything to a tee. He was also really considerate on our must-play and do-not-play song lists, which is something that I know has been an issue with DJs at other friends' weddings. He was communicative and professional. I could not recommend him more!
Caitlin
Caitlin Sent on 06/24/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Party of our dreams!

Stephen was so helpful throughout the entire process. He was a great communicator and made the planning process very easy for us. The day of the wedding was seamless and he helped ensure we had an awesome party with our friends and family. Highly recommend Stephen for anyone looking for a DJ!
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
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