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Big Love Weddings

Cornelius, NC View map Visit website
Rating 5.0 out of 5
75 reviews
$485 Typical Price

About

$485 Typical Price

After taking a 2.5-year hiatus, Reverend Tod Coles and Big Love Weddings are back. We offer non-denominational officiating with over a decade of high-level experience. Presiding over 1000 weddings Tod takes great pride and delight in helping couples pledge their love the way they’ve always dreamed. Friendly, professional, yet laid-back and personable, Tod can pull out all the stops to make your I-do moment truly perfect.

Services Offered

Big Love Weddings happily serves all manner of weddings, including religious, secular, and interfaith. Whether you would like a traditional ceremony or something a little more unconventional, Tod aims to fulfill your wishes. Determined to ensure that your wedding is distinctive and personal, he will help you create your own vows or use traditional vows if you prefer. Tod spends half his time in St. Thomas USVI, operating his boat charter business, and doing weddings of course. Tod serves the entire island of St. Thomas and St. John. When not in the Virgin Islands, you will find Tod at his home base in Lake Norman, NC.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$485

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$285

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$125

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Civil Union
Single Religion

What services do you provide?

Allow Couples' Own Vows
Licensed

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

KY
NC
SC
VA

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    Just want to let the world know that i had a very wonderful experience with big love wedding.... I will do it again if i have too... It was very special i can't stop thanking rev Tod Coles thank you so much for making me have a wonderful wedding, a very special day that is going to stick with me for a lifetime... Thank you so much you went out the way and I just want to let you know that I really truly and deeply appreciate every bit of my ceremony thank you thank you thank you!!!!...
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    Reverend Tod Coles has a way of bringing levity to an emotional ceremony, and keeping everyone engaged. His delivery was spot on and connected. I would highly recommend using
    Reverend Tod Coles to marry you !
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    Rachel Married on 10/21/2018
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    Rev Tod was perfect!

    Working with Rev Tod was so easy and fun. We wanted a non-religious ceremony and he was happy to provide just what we wanted without judgement. The ceremony was personal and tailored to us and our relationship with every line. He helped us every step of the way picking out what to say and even suggested a unity ceremony for us to do that we'd never heard of - it was unique and special and our guests remarked how original it was! We wrote our own vows and Rev Tod read them for us before the wedding and made sure they matched in length and tone which was very helpful! I would highly recommend Rev Tod especially to those wanting a non-religious ceremony that's all about the couple and their story!

Awards

  • 75
  • WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
  • WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner
  • WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2015 Winner
  • WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2014 Winner

Deals

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If you found us on WeddingWire we will give you a 10% discount on our services. Remember to show us your voucher when you come see us.

Team

Christina Coles
Christina Coles
Planner and Coordinator

Over 20 years of experience in corporate and leisure travel, as well as professional wedding and event planning and coordination for the day of your ceremony. My wife, best friend, and right hand when it comes to weddings.

Professional Network & Endorsements

2 Endorsements
Carolina Event Design Carolina Event Design Wedding Planners

Tod does a great job - use him frequently.

Deans' Duets & Quartets Deans' Duets & Quartets Wedding Musicians

We played a wedding officiated by Rev. Tod in Lake Lure, NC this year. He is a wonderful officiant! He followed the couple's specifications perfectly and listened specifically to what they wanted - to personalize the ceremony to them. If you're looking for an officiant who listens to you and is invested in your vision for your wedding day, Big Love Weddings is a great choice.

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Map

6501 Red Hook Plaza, Suite 102-650 Cornelius, NC, 00802
704-453-6577
Location of (Big Love Weddings)
8093 E Andrews Dr Denver, NC, 28037
7044536577

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