Hi everyone.My FH and I are trying to figure out how much should we spend on wedding invitations for 130 people? We have found 2 invitations to match our colors somehow which is black,silver, and white. But the invitations are 1 has silver and black, and the other has white and black. They are pretty much the same thing, they ae both elegant, but the cost of these invites are $356.00 this ncludes the invites, and response cards, not including shipping and handling. I am wondering do we really need to spend $356.00 dollars for invities that people will probably throw away and especially for 1 day? How mych did you spend for your invitations? I need some advice, being we're about to figure out how much to spend for invites. I believe we can cut the cost down.I just feel we can save some money...Am I wrong for feeling this way?