Would You Be Okay If Your Husband Had a Vasectomy?

I'd be pretty decently confused if he did it now as he's the one that loves children and wants them now 😆
If he did after two kids I'd understand. He's not a secret keeper so he'd probably tell me before and give his reasons.
There really isn't much you can do after the fact anyway so I'd just roll with it. 🤷

Question isn't clear......

Do you mean after we are done having kids? If so, then HAVE AT IT!
Actually, I think it's crazy that a female would be expected to have her tubes tied. We gave birth.... the least the guy can do is get a vasectomy.

If he wanted to do it - after we're done having kids - I won't say no lol. It's his body his choice. I know we wants at least one more child (we currently have 3) so I'd be quite surprised I'd he did anything like that now.

Hmmm I’d only be upset because I’m infertile so it’d be like “who you getting snipped for then?” 😂 but really it’s off the table for us.

YES!! I keep telling FH to go and do it! (we already have kids) but he keeps saying what if "it" never works again? lol

It's his body. If it's before we had kids I'd just say maybe freeze some sperm or something if we ever decide to have kids later on

I'm totally fine with FH getting one if he wants it. It's his body so I can't control what he does

View Quoted Comment If he did it now before you two had the opportunity to have kids you'd just roll with it?

View Quoted Comment Either before or after kids. My point is if you weren't in agreement with it.
I also think it's crazy that women are expected to have their tubes tied.

View Quoted Comment I wouldn't have a choice I would have to. I'd need an explanation for sure.
He didn't get input on my birth control implant 🤷

View Quoted Comment Would you also be open to getting your tubes tied instead?

View Quoted Comment ☺️ I completely understand.

View Quoted Comment How many children do you have? Would you get your tubes tied?

View Quoted Comment Got it, thanks for sharing.

View Quoted Comment Would you be okay with it even if you don't have kids yet?

View Quoted Comment Good point.

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Oh definitely! Kids are expensive and I love doggies more

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We have 3 children between the two of us. I have an IUD, had a consultation to get my tubes tied but haven't had enough time at my new job to get more time off (using a weeks worth of time off for the wedding) but after I rebuild my time, I have no problem tying them. I just want double, triple and quadruple make sure we have no more children! lol

I had my tubes removed, so I’d be confused as to why he felt he needed a vasectomy! 😂

View Quoted Comment I honestly haven't done any research yet to make that kind of decision, so for now, I couldn't say. I don't think I could do it though.