Would you be mad if your friend chose same wedding day as you?

Yes you're being petty

You get to then celebrate anniversaries on the same date? Sounds cool to have that kind of bond with a friend. Since it isn't the actual same day, I'm not sure why you are upset.

Yes, you're being petty. You do not own that date. ETA: It would be different if it was the EXACT same day, but its not.

Leave it alone. It's a year apart and not a big deal. Just my honest opinion.

That is ridiculous. You get one day, not one day forever.

If it's a year a part it shouldn't be a big deal. Be flattered if anything.

Why would this be an issue? I don't get why you'd be mad at your friend for setting their date a YEAR away from yours.

Listen to Queen Elsa

If it's a year apart, I do not see the big deal, whatsoever. How fun to share an anniversary!!

That's a random day to choose so I don't understand why she would pick the same date if you already mentioned. You can't stake claim on a day forever though. You don't have to attend her wedding if you don't want to because it will be on your 1st anniversary and that is a legitimate excuse to not go.

It's a year apart, what is the issue? My friend is doing the EXACT same date as me. I could have been petty about it but I'm not. It is what it is.

Honestly, that might irritate me a little. But I'd be over it in about five minutes. Nothing to get worked up over for sure.

I wouldn't be mad if it's a year apart. Look at it as a form of flattery.

Thanks guys. I was feeling upset because FH and I were going to move our date up to 2017 instead of 2018. Been talking about it a lot lately . On the other hand would be pretty cool to have someone to share Anniversary with.

I don't think you're being petty. I can see why you'd be upset. But at the same time, not sure it's worth losing a friend over.

I'm with @FTDA...I think it would be kind of fun to share an anniversary with a close friend. Sounds like an excuse for couples trips!

It's not the same day. It's the same date, a YEAR apart. That is not the same thing. You are being ridiculous. You don't own that date forever.

@Bethany A not super upset like I will be ending my friendship with her. We are still good friends. I'm just thinking man I might as well leave my date to 2018 and everything will work out.

Anna is moving it to another date in 2017 an option for you if you want to get married in 2017?

Yup petty lol seriously it's not a big deal can you imagine some people might even get married the exact date and time as you