Winter Solstice Party, Surprise Wedding

Wow. What an awkward position they put you in. I honestly can't think of what I would do/say in this scenario. Good luck!

I would tell them no.

I would just tell them no and explain to them that you’re not comfortable with it and that it’s your party that means a lot to you.

I’m sorry if this hurts your friendship but please please remember that they are completely wrong and astonishingly rude.

So awk. Almost like taking advantage of your party? idk. I would kindly decline and say you already have special things planned for the whole night. Even if you don't? lol!

Do not give in. They’re absurd.

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I can't imagine asking someone that. That's a tough one, but it's completely unfair to put you in that position. You would basically be paying for her wedding. Your party sounds amazing!

Sheesh this is weird. Yes, I'd say sorry but no we really want to keep the pagan spirit of the party. Also, we've already given the caterer final numbers.

Sleep on it?! OMG, please call them at 6am letting them know it still ain't happening.

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We have an early appointment so I will be up around 6AM and am so tempted to call! Will keep ya'll updated!

Nope nope nope nope, not cool of them to ask IMO. Hey, who wouldn't want a free wedding though? -_-

I would take this as a compliment - your winter solstice party must be fantastic if they want it to be their wedding!

However... unless they're planning to cover the cost for you, it's rude AF. It's a hard pass for me.

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No, not a soft no, just say "no, we are not comfortable with that". Do not offer any excuses because you don't owe them one. They want you to host their wedding, that's really selfish and had the nerve to ask for additional guests - that's rude for any party.

Sooo awkward that they would ask this and try a second time after you already said no. They probably started telling people that this was happening and will now be forced to backtrack -- super weird and awk on their part.

Wow pretty ballsy to ask that LOL, it would be a no from me too!!

I don't even understand what these people are thinking, and why they think this is perfectly acceptable to ask you. If I were in your shoes, I probably would have gone from nice to blunt real quick..."sleep on it"...omg that would have set me off.

What on earth made them think this would be a good idea?

Who does that?! That's ballsy!! And they asked you to sleep on it after you told them no? That's insane!