I just received the invite for my group tasting and it includes 4 people. I was thinking me, FH, my mom and my DOC would go. My mom doesn't see why I want to invite my DOC and I think it's because she wants my step dad to come. My DOC is more like planner. She communicates with me daily, helps me make choices, helps me with vendors, and has been amazing. She used to actually be the event coordinator at the venue so she's familiar with it, knows the staff, and I figure she could help me figure out what if any upgrades I should get and help work out deals etc. is it normal to bring your planner with you?