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Jayla
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Which came first: booking your photographer or buying your wedding dress?

Jayla, on December 11, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 121

What big budget decision did you make first? Was booking your photographer a top priority? Or did you jump right into shopping for your wedding dress? Which came first for you, and how soon did you check these choices off your planning list? Photo from Fabulous Frocks of Atlanta in Atlanta, GA Next...

What big budget decision did you make first? Was booking your photographer a top priority? Or did you jump right into shopping for your wedding dress? Which came first for you, and how soon did you check these choices off your planning list?

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Photo from Fabulous Frocks of Atlanta in Atlanta, GA


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121 Comments

  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding ·
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    Booked photographer. She was a friend of my husbands and her work was great.

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  • Nikita
    VIP April 2019
    Nikita ·
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    No question the dress. That was in the first month. We're still finalizing the photographer...

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  • M
    Super November 2019
    Melissa ·
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    Buying my wedding dress came first, although I was dreading getting both done lol.
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  • Larisa
    Devoted July 2019
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    I bought my dress first right after venue. Photographer came a month after. However, my dress was not a big expense, only $43 🤷🏻‍♀️
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  • BrandiWeds18
    VIP May 2019
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    I believe i booked my photographer first.

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  • Jane
    Expert May 2019
    Jane ·
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    I bought the dress a couple of months ago ... still no photographer
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  • Tonia
    Expert October 2019
    Tonia ·
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    I literally bought my dress and booked my photographer on the same day. Was no expecting that to happen, but I feel like I just tackled two huge hurdles and I can sigh a little bit over the holiday.

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  • Rachel
    Super July 2019
    Rachel ·
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    Booking my photographer! Photography was the most important thing for me to book and only booked my venue first to guarantee the date we wanted to hire the photographer for. It took me a while to find a photographer with the kind of style I like. The dress and photographer were probably the most important decisions to me but I knew the dress was much less time sensitive for me.
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  • Mrs.mendoza
    Dedicated January 2019
    Mrs.mendoza ·
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    I bought my dress first and my photographer 4 months after hehe
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  • Courtney
    Dedicated August 2019
    Courtney ·
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    Photographer
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  • J
    Dedicated October 2019
    Jessica ·
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    I bought my dress first only because I spotted it in the shop as I've right away that was it lol
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  • Kim
    Devoted March 2019
    Kim ·
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    Buying my dress.
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  • ChefKait
    Devoted December 2019
    ChefKait ·
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    Photographer has been booked for two months, still haven't found my dress!

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  • Lacy
    Super December 2018
    Lacy ·
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    I truly don't remember at this point lol. Long engagement problems. I know I chose my dress July 2017 and I think we booked the photographer that summer too.
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  • AQuixoticBride
    VIP July 2018
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    I booked the photographer way before I bought the dress. As far as budget goes, I figured the dress budget was the easiest to cut if necessary.

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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
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    Photographer since it came with the venue lol

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  • Shaunte
    Expert December 2021
    Shaunte ·
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    Photographer.

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Woohoo!! That was awesome!

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Aww I'm glad you were able to find the one!!Smiley heart

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  • Brittany
    Dedicated September 2019
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    Photos and my dress were my top two things. I said, even before I got engaged, that I didn’t care where or when I got married as long as I had a dress I loved and pictures. Because pictures are really the only thing you have left after your wedding day, aside from your marriage. I knew who my photographer was going to be but I didn’t (still don’t) have a date set. I’ve talked to them and I know that all of my possible dates are free, and they don’t expect them to fill up this early. So, I haven’t technically paid them, but they were the very first people I talked to about the wedding.

    My dress was my very first real wedding purchase, along with my veil, necklace, earrings, and small headpiece.
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