What size heel are you/did you wear?

...and this is why I'm wearing cowboy boots lol. Sorry no helpful words here. Good luck!

Flats. I'm 5'9, he's 6'3. I wear heels to work every day and I'm taller than everyone. I want to be short on my wedding day.

5" heels my FH is 5'9" and I'm only 5'1" the only problem is now I will be taller than my dad by 1" lol. Hey we LOVE pictures.

I'm 4'11", only wearing like 1.5"-2" heels, simply because A) I'm not good at walking in taller heels, and B) anything higher seriously hurts my feet, FAST. Even with that, I'm switching the cute sandal heel that I bought for the ceremony with a bedazzled character shoe (for the arch support and comfort) for the reception, because they're the only type of heel I can comfortably wear indefinitely.

Mnwatson1--your picture is adorable btw.

I'm looking at kitten heels and mid heels (no more than 2"). FH and I are the same height, but in order to avoid getting my lace dress hemmed, I need a small heel. When it arrives, I'll know for sure, but I'm hoping I don't need anything more than an inch.

Hard to find cute stuff though

I am wearing 5" heels for the ceremony, than wearing flats for the reception. I wear 4" heels on a semi-regular basis to work, so I think I'll be okay. I've also been wearing my wedding heels around the house to try to break them in some, which has helped make them more comfortable. Practice makes perfect!

Sarah, I'm going to be taller than my dad, too. Oops.

I wanna see the shoes please.

It's gonna be all or nothing for me.

So either flats or 3 1/2 or 4 inches. Anything in between doesn't interest me. BUT...I will continue to look.

Mine are about 4"

I didn't really think about height I just found shoes that I fell out of. I'm not going to be taller than FH so it's all good.

If I wear heels (which is basically for work or parties) they can be between a little kitten heel and 6+” So 4” seems fine for me.

I'm wearing ballet flats. I just want to be comfortable because I love to dance.

I would think if you're used to heels, then it shouldn't be a problem to wear them for the wedding.

I wore 3.5 inches for the ceremony & 2 inch platform flip flops for reception.

I would find a heel height that you typically wear.

I am wearing flats, not only do my feet not allow heels but I want to be comfortable the whole day. Not being like "Oh my god I'm smiling but IN SO MUCH PAIN"

Mallory - 6" heels scare the life out of me! :-)

Laura - Yes! I will have to practice, lots.

I think I might take your lead gals and get some reception shoes.

OMG Lacey I LOVE your shoes they are SO similar to a pair of Channel shoes I love but couldn't afford where did you get them?

I am 5'3 FH is 6'3 i wear a 3.5 inch heel most of the time. I do have a pair of boots that are i think 4.5 inches. I will have three pairs of shoes for the wedding 3.5 inch heels for ceremony and some pictures, cowboy boots for pictures and flats for dancing later.

Sarah - Modcloth! Go and buy them, they're only $45! : )

Also, I love you all but I totally banned cowboy boots from my bridal party, hahaha. Growing up in hick-town, U.S.A., I don't want country themed anything.

Oh wow, Lacey, those shoes are awesome (and of course your dress is gorgeous!). If you wear 3-3.5" heels on a day to day basis, 4" may not make that much of a difference to you. Do you wear large heels when you go out? If you do decide to go for the shoes, at least make sure you practice practice practice walking and dancing in them.

I'm not sure what I'm going to do about shoes. I like wearing heels and feel comfortable in them, but FI and I are pretty much the same height and I don't want to be taller on the wedding day.

I am wearing flats, FH is 5'8 & I am 5'6

MissMadeline - Thank you, you're too sweet. It depends on where I'm going on what shoes I wear, sometimes I wear high heels. That's why I chose a strap that goes across the top of my foot. I feel those hold my feet way better.

Thanks for the advice of practicing dancing in them!