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We wanted a wedding but i want us to elope now

Sfam, on May 29, 2019 at 12:49 PM Posted in Planning 0 3
My fiancé wants a wedding, and I did too, we are planning next year in June. But I really want us to just elope now. Like next month... It’ll still be special because it’s us marrying each other. I did plan of the colors we want for our wedding and how I want it to look and be, but we haven’t payed for anything yet too. So I was thinking I can’t wait to be his wife and he be my husband so why not just elope ? Tie the knot ! And have a celebration after with family by renting the cabin at a apartment office we live at looks pretty luxurious and we can always decorate it very pretty for our party. We’ll still have our dance, our cake and them toasting to us and food! And we’ll make it special like that. But I just want us to elope somewhere or go to court and get married there because I can’t wait ! I mean I can.. but I don’t want to wait lol and I also don’t want him or us to regret not having a big wedding like the venue and the DJ with loud music..
-we’ll be married
-celebrate it by renting out the “cabin” at the apartment leasing place. where the kitchen and fireplace is at with bathrooms and living room type of area.
- we’ll decorate it very beautifully , chat with family , toast, have our drinks. Have our cake ! Have our dance, have food. I probably will have two dresses, the one I wear when we get married. Then the one I wear for the celebration/party which will be white too
and everyone lives next to us, so if they drink they live 5 minutes from where we live and they’ll be safe too going home

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Latest activity by Clíodhna, on May 30, 2019 at 7:15 AM
  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    If that's what both of you want, I say go for it! Just be honest with your families that you eloped Smiley smile

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  • Nikita
    VIP April 2019
    Nikita ·
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    I agree with Cher. If this is what you and your FH want, do it! just make sure your family is aware of it. They may want to do something like host an engagement party or have a slightly bigger celebration later. You guys do you!

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Hi there!

    I would agree with the PP’s, if you and your FS want to elope, go for it!

    This article from WeddingWire is really helpful in planning this, I think you will find it super in thinking of the next steps of your elopement, how to tell family and friends, etc. - So, You Want to Elope?

    Where would you like to elope to? Any location in particular?

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