The rude things people say to the bride and groom

I really want to post this article on my FB page, I've gotten 4 messages via FB from people requesting an invitation.

-Why are you passing out STD's it's not like yall are having a $25,000 wedding.

-I've never been to a wedding where kids aren't allowed, don't you think that's rude?

-How much have you spent?

-Can you make an exception for my kids, they don't misbehave?

I'm having the hardest time getting people to understand that we can not afford to pay for their kids to eat nor do we have the space for them to take up a seat!!!

Tami P. I am so sorry for your loss Your post just about made me cry. Thats so incredibly sad but sweet with the teddy bear. I am sure everyone who matters will feel the same way.

Thus far I have found it rude that a few of my friends said "I want to be in the wedding" I think that is soooo rude. It takes that fun out of ME asking them to be in MY bridal party because they already included themselves.

I have another friend who isn't married but wants to "TELL" me what to do. I am all open to advise but when I state my likes and dislike and you try to "TELL" me what to do, I have a problem with that.

I have decided to only share my thoughts and ideas on this forum because at the rate I am going I rather elope.

When I annonced my engagement everyone asked if I was pregnant, now that we setting a wedding date "so far away" (18 months) people jsut continously ask me if were ever going to have kids. Grr

My very much rude comments are about my honeymoon. I am a virgin and friends of my FH who have no respect with the fact that I chose to wait are constantly commenting on it. Telling me that they are going to ask how it went and want details when I get back!! How friggin rude! Ugh. And it's constant to where I hate hanging out with them. They make fun of me all the time too, and talk really perverted around me just to see me feel uncomfortable! Ok..whew...got a little angry typing that there lol.

@Jen that is so freakin juvenile, they are just jealous they gave their cookies away to the first cookie monster they ran into

The only rude comments was from my mother and brother.

My mom was just basically negative from the start saying my ideas were dumb, to costly etc and wanted me to "make sure" I invite her friends...and keep in mind she has NO taste nor did she pay for anything. I quickly stopped discussing details with her.

My brother had a hissy fit when I told him that I either met his new gf or she was not invited...then she showed up with more cleavage than a Vegas stripper and he was more than happy to tell me "I didn't know if you were serving booze so I brought my own" at my reception...and this was after he missed my entire ceremony.

@KVSB hahaha thats a good way to put it! They are just insecure and rude. I don't drink and when he has a beer he offers me some when I will obviously say no and when I do, he tries to argue and debate with me. I just tell him to cram it and do what you want, but I choose not to drink. Oh wow, you should see his face every time. Oh and he only does the beer thing when FH isnt around because he knows Alex

will knock him out lol.

We have heard the engagement is going to be to long since it happened in December, we announced in January but aren't getting married until 2014

Lol @ watching said knockout

I have a friend who just got engaged and was looking at a bunch of venues- including ours.

Needless to say they aren't getting married there- but my friend keeps bringing up all the reasons why she hates the place I'm using and why she's looking somewhere else. I happen to love my venue and it's personal because FH's parents were also married there and it's around the corner from where I grew up- I always drove past the gates and wanted to have my wedding there...

I've had people comment that I should forget the wedding and just save money for a house. That may be decent advice for some but it is clearly not what we are doing so why bother making such a statement? Rude if you ask me.

LOL...

when are you going to get on birth control?

you don't need a honeymoon you can just come back to the house afterwards (we live with his parents right now)

Why do you care about one day? It's a waste of money and probably wont last anyway

Bahaha M.S. P. I just laughed out loud at the birth control thing....

I laugh about it now but at the time I wanted to kick someone (FMIL) in the shins ...lol

I had to let a friend down that she couldnt be in my wedding party, because I wanted to keep it small and she made a few rude comments to me about with FH right there. Wasnt too happy about that. Told me that I wasnt going to be in her wedding but FH was and that she was going to make sure to sit on his side during the ceremony.

M.S. P. I heard that from my own mother. My parents didn't have a wedding. they had a friend marry them. Mom didn't want to get married.

everything you post people have said.

Lets see here is one " You already have two kids, what are you getting married for?" That was from one of my groomsmens fathers. I just found that super rude.....

I got married last weekend and everything went fine. We were 7 people so we could all talk to each other and do some activities at the end of the day. I knew things would not be perfect and what annoyed me the most is when i wanted a picture of me and my husband with his parents and his father said that he didn't want to in front of everybody. I just sat down on my chair, at the restaurant, and continued talking. He's like that in real life so i think that it's important to tell these people before the wedding not to embarrass you.