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Juile
Savvy December 2013

Sex in our vows?

Juile , on September 2, 2012 at 11:00 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 167

I want fiance to commit to having sex with me a certain amount of times a week in our vows, would you consider this bad taste? It is really important to me because he has a lower sex drive than me and its something we often argue about.

I want fiance to commit to having sex with me a certain amount of times a week in our vows, would you consider this bad taste? It is really important to me because he has a lower sex drive than me and its something we often argue about.

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  • Michelle P
    VIP October 2014
    Michelle P ·
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    I agree with everything Kris said and the other ladies. It's defiantly not ok to put that in your vows. They are suppose to be romantic and sweet not promising to spoon all the time.. I think it's super tacky!!! and quite frankly rude! what would the minister think & your guest? I know, if I was a guest I would be disgusted... I would defiantly think long and hard about this.

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  • Carole M (a.k.a "old tart")
    Master October 2011
    Carole M (a.k.a "old tart") ·
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    Kris....Sharron's post was flagged? WRONG! Your assessment of the ladies on WW is spot on.

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  • Hayley C™
    Master March 2008
    Hayley C™ ·
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    It is an interesting topic, and yes, she didn't come back to participate in the discussion for quite awhile (which usually implies a troll post)

    However - many would feel attacked and feel the need to defend themselves when they come back and see they have 7 pages of comments (some of them even poking fun.)

    Many WW-Brides have had posts get out of hand (open bar/cash bar -- stag and doe parties -- timelines with food/small budget) and when that WW-Bride sticks around, she will find that we are a great group of ladies with great tips and insight.

    But, for a new poster - this was getting overwhelming and I just was hoping people would hold back on the sarcasm and jokes and just try to answer the post in a way that would help encourage Julie to stay.

    That was all I was asking. Can we get the white flag out?


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  • krisalicious
    Master April 2012
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    Hayley, you're so sweet. Smiley smile

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  • Brandi Elizabeth
    Devoted October 2014
    Brandi Elizabeth ·
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    Yeah, it is kind of weird that mine and Sharon's comments about her profile picture being a random model girl in Tennessee and "her" ring being from a woman on WeddingBee were flagged, but nothing from the OP.

    Oh well.

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  • Christina
    Master October 2017
    Christina ·
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    There is no evidence that would discredit this user's legitimacy as a welcome member of our community.

    I hope you are all having a wonderful Tuesday back from the long holiday weekend!

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