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Jeweliana
Said yes!
Jeweliana, on September 13, 2023 at 7:21 PM

Got engaged back on August 20th! Big day is going to the October 24th 2025. Never thought I'd get married, so I have no idea where to start lol. Still rapping my head around being engaged 😁. If...

Future Mrs. Chicken, Sep 21, 2023 10 869 3
Kennedy
Virtual Invitations
Kennedy, on September 20, 2023 at 7:18 AM

I’m hoping to send virtual invitations soon via WeddingWire and most of our guests are listed under their phone number. Can I still send the invitations this way or do I need to request everyone’s...

Kennedy, Sep 20, 2023 519
Morgan
Guest List Struggle
Morgan, on September 12, 2023 at 7:53 AM

I need advice on how to narrow down a guest list, we have many people. And unfortunately I have not met a lot of my fiancé's family in the 3-1/2 years we've been together. I am having a hard time...

Wendy, Sep 19, 2023 6 1,441 1
Lauren
Best Wedding Planner
Lauren, on September 18, 2023 at 8:11 AM

So I am getting married in May and looking for the best wedding planner to use to stay organized. What do you recommend? I struggle with big tasks related to anxiety and feeling overwhelmed so I need...

Michelle, Sep 18, 2023 2 292
Jada
Couples getting married on September 15, 2024
Jada, on July 29, 2023 at 9:26 AM

Hey guys we’re all wedding twins we picked the same date. What is everyone’s wedding colors?

Katlyn, Sep 18, 2023 7 73 2
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Make a seating chart
Shan, on September 16, 2023 at 5:04 AM

Make a nice seating chart

Lynnie, Sep 18, 2023 2 252 1
Lovelyl
Elope then party?
Lovelyl, on September 16, 2023 at 7:22 PM

We’ve gone back and forth with what we want to do in terms of getting married. All we do know is we don’t want a big wedding, so we are now thinking about eloping and having a “happily ever after”...

CM, Sep 18, 2023 6 552
Hunter
Welcome Bag Fee
Hunter, on September 13, 2023 at 10:33 AM

Hello brides! I just discovered our hotel will charge us a $3.00 fee to hand out each welcome bag as they check guest in. Has anyone come up with a solution to avoid this fee? I totally...

Rae, Sep 18, 2023 7 805
Jasmine
My wedding jasmine ferrufino and my fiancé
Jasmine, on September 17, 2023 at 2:39 PM

HI im jasmine ferrufino I just got engaged on September 9th of 2023 so recently I am so happy and its was the best moment ever I am so blessed so we already pick a date it going to be next year...

Jasmine, Sep 17, 2023 4 670
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Long distance vow renewal planning
Megan, on September 13, 2023 at 7:19 PM

What tips and tricks do y'all have for planning a ceremony long distance? My husband and I live in Vermont and due to family travel restrictions we are attempting to plan the event to be held around...

Jasmine, Sep 17, 2023 4 453 1
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Forgot international info on Save the Date
Jennifer, on September 16, 2023 at 2:58 PM

My daughter is having a destination wedding next April. We forgot to include the wedding website on the Save the Dates. Does anyone have suggestions what to do? I’m concerned because we need to have...

Jacks, Sep 17, 2023 6 318
Caitlin
Rehearsal Dinner Location—help!!
Caitlin, on September 14, 2023 at 6:38 PM

Okay, so I had a location booked with a private room that's closer to a more happening part of town in my city. My FMIL mentioned that she's personally worried about parking. I figured that I'd look...

Pat, Sep 17, 2023 7 763
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Bridal party and couple entrance dilemma
SarahM, on September 16, 2023 at 4:45 PM

Hey everyone, So I'm a bit torn for the wedding reception. One of our pairs of the bridal party are entering into close to the same song as my wife and I. The song they are entering into is the actual...

Jacks, Sep 17, 2023 5 640
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Seating Chart or No Seating Chart
Countryangel707, on September 11, 2023 at 5:42 PM

So both my fiance and I have divorced parents. We are both experiencing both sides voicing how they do not want to sit near the other or even have to see the other. This is going to be a little hard...

Shan, Sep 16, 2023 11 624
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Wedding Coordinator
Jennifer, on September 16, 2023 at 3:10 AM

Has anyone worked with a wedding coordinator?

Jennifer, Sep 16, 2023 189
Tasha
Brides Getting Married on October 12,2024
Tasha, on September 14, 2023 at 9:54 PM

Hello I Said YES a day before my Birthday last year in Sept.20,2022 and we was planning to get married this year but we postponed until next year in Oct . So I am excited , How Many 10-12-24 Brides. ...

Tasha, Sep 14, 2023 85
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Wedding Programs
Angmariee, on August 23, 2023 at 8:25 PM

Trying to avoid extra cost on wedding items, is programs necessary?

Megan&Matt, Sep 14, 2023 11 767
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Bar hopping between ceremony and reception?
Tiffany, on June 10, 2017 at 8:13 PM

Is this actually a thing? My friend was in a wedding party today that did this. He said that it happens at every wedding he's been in. They were hopping for an hour and a half and showed up smashed to...

Jessica, Sep 14, 2023 18 900 1
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Vendor Response Slowness - Vent
Michelle, on June 9, 2018 at 11:30 PM

Some venues are really annoying at their rate of response. The restaurant for the wedding reception takes 5 days to respond to emails and sometimes I respond to an email minutes after it arrives and...

Candy, Sep 13, 2023 15 1,947
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How do shuttles work?
Alexandra, on September 13, 2023 at 12:33 PM

A lot of the transportation vendors I am looking at give price quotes per hour, but my question is do you get charged for the entirety of your wedding, even though the shuttle is only in operation for...

Michelle, Sep 13, 2023 2 115
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