Discussions from Planning

This is going to be a long explanation 😂 I am currently in nursing school, and my significant other is a Marine. We found out he is getting stationed in Hawaii, 5,000 miles away from me, and where he...

Hi All - I’m trying desperately to understand how much my venue and catering (which is often combined in a package, including open bars and food) cost you compared to the overall spend on the wedding....

My fiance and I are having a small intimate ceremony with just immediate family (parents, grandparents, siblings (significant others) nieces and nephews. Should we send out formal invitations with...

We just got a short video made from our videographer and we love it so much! I highly recommend finding a videographer who also does drone shots! If you’re getting married in Italy, highly recommend...

Since this is my 2nd (and FINAL) time to get married I am a little unsure about having my Dad walk me down the aisle. He did it the first time around but this time it seems a little akward. He is...

I need help finding some where to get married that doesn't cost to me too much. I was supposed to be married on October 25 but I had to take in my grand 4 grandbabies now I'm getting married on...

We have less than a week to go! How are you fixed for last-minute details? Are you stressed or zen? I'm only taking off Friday, so I'm trying to finalize vendors and take care of details (hello...

My headcount is a little higher than expected. I’m paying for my entire wedding myself. I am thinking of having pizza be the only option for kids under 10…? Maybe pizza or chicken fingers IF it’s...

I am deciding on ivory vs white tablecloths. I want to have blush or light pink table runners. Has anyone ordered white or ivory tablecloths from tableclothsfactory.com? My dress is listed as ivory...

Any advice to keep the buget down? We are doing a lot of diy n cutting things out. But the problem is venues n photograhers/videographers.

We had sent out our save the dates a few months ago already. Our venue is at a hotel and they sent us POG link for guests to use with a code for a hotel room. They blocked rooms for our guests and I’m...

I just found out about a month ago that I no longer have a wedding photographer. I was very upset to find out that she went MIA with no explanation. Thank goodness I haven't paid her any money yet....

My fiance is going on a work trip the weekend before our wedding. Generally these trips are to nice locations and I frequently accompany him. However, this time I am worried about running into last...

I’m trying to order table cloths for my reception area but I’m unsure on how many extra tables I’ll need for dessert, buffet, appetizers, water station ect. How many extra tables did you use for your...

I want to bring my own food from my culture and my fiancée's culture to the wedding. But we are having a hard time finding a venue that will allow us to bring our own food. Does anyone know Of any...

Hey yall, idk if anyone here has heard of Mast Cell Activation Syndrome but it SUCKS! It's been 3 years of long covid for me and I still haven't recovered. They say MCAS is like being allergic to the...

How many hours do you have the photography and Videography on your wedding day?

Has anyone eloped with just you and your SO and then thrown a reception after a few months later? We are thinking of this as this is my second wedding and his first but we don’t want a traditional...

Are their any military brides in this group?