Discussions from Planning

Which do you prefer to attend as a regular guest not in the wedding party?

Looking for insight on if doing RSVP cards are worth it or if I should just leave it to online RSVP on our website !

My maid of honor (who I have yet to ask) lives on the other side of the country. We have been very close friends, for the last 10 years, try to visit each other whenever we can, and call each...

Hi everyone. I just set up a wedding invitation website with all info included to my relatives and only few responded. The way I sent it was first by saying hello how are you, this is the link to the...

Hi! My fiancé and I are getting married this fall and I would love advice on a wedding day timeline that works well with the constraints we have. Some background: We're planning a fairly traditional...

Hi We are getting married next September, and as we plan our beautiful wedding we have questions about whether or not to get wedding insurance. Does anyone have an idea where we can find an insurance...

Hello all, I’m unsure how to go about my wedding invitations because I’ll already be legally married. Me and my fiancé are currently both living and working in Japan (he’s from the U.K) and are...

What were some considerations, pros/cons you considered when picking a June wedding?

What stood out to you as most memorable? The guest experience, the food, the vibe? The people attending?

Our wedding is in the Fall (my profile says May but I can't find how to change it -- but my real wedding is in November), and while we still have time to plan for things, I wanted to get feedback on...

So we are getting married in 2026 around August. Has anyone ever been married or is getting married at The Manor on Mountain View?

Hello! I am very curious, how many songs do you plan on using for the ceremony that includes people walking down the aisle. I have a very specific song I want to use to walk down the aisle to. Not...

Hello I am looking for a seating chart where I can set fit my guest list

Last time we tried this , I tried to book it and he tried to plan and pay for it ! There was chaos in the sex entertainment industry so we got …sneaky. I planned it and he called and booked...

Is it normal for a venue to include "optional gratuity to venue staff for planning/execution" on the contract? Even though it says optional, it sounds like they're expecting at least 18%. I understand...

What are you covering as hosts outside of the food and beverages at the reception? What is common in your circle vs what you are choosing to do? Traditionally, in many circles, it was and still is...

My fiancé is studying PT and has over 250k in student loans and accruing 40 bucks in interest a day.. Currently he is planning a 30k wedding. My parents gifted us 12k for a wedding gift(honeymoon...