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mrswinteriscoming
How much time will you/did you take off from work for the wedding?
mrswinteriscoming, on June 15, 2021 at 7:06 PM

Our wedding is on a Sunday but I know for certain I will take time off work from the Thursday onward because we have a bit of running around to do (Thursday pick up suits/drop off place cards, Friday...

Ellen, Jun 23, 2021 30 990
Ashley M
Parents helping other kids with wedding and not you?
Ashley M, on December 8, 2016 at 3:15 PM

My FH and I have been together for 7 years. engaged for almost 2. We are not the type to ask for money and plan to pay for the wedding ourselves. My FH's brother just got engaged this summer and his...

C&J, Jun 22, 2021 35 2,977
Samantha
Wedding times
Samantha, on June 21, 2021 at 1:57 PM

My wedding starts at 4 and ends at 11. I'm trying to think of clever ways to come up with the phrases to go with the times to write on our board. What does y'alls look like?

Lynnie, Jun 22, 2021 2 628
Chantelle
Useful bridemaids gifts?
Chantelle, on June 5, 2021 at 11:07 AM

Sorry I know this is probably asked a lot, but I’m wondering what bridesmaids gifts that you’ve received/given turned out actually useful? I’m thinking to get my girls makeup bags (each in their own...

Tiffany, Jun 22, 2021 15 1,098
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Zola help! How to set rsvp to private...
Poonam, on June 20, 2021 at 2:33 AM

Hello, does anyone have any tips on how you can stop people from seeing other people’s rsvp. We picked and chose people for different things to keep the number small, and I don’t want people to type...

Lynnie, Jun 22, 2021 2 1,953
Alexandra
Invitations
Alexandra, on June 18, 2021 at 11:06 PM

Anyone getting married December 4th? Most of our family and friends do not live local to us. I was thinking to order invitations now and send them out in July. That way people can make work and travel...

Alexandra, Jun 22, 2021 17 329
C
nye Wedding!?
Cassandra, on June 22, 2021 at 12:59 PM

Has anyone had or are planning a New Year's Eve wedding? Is it hard to book vendors because it's a holiday?

Rebelle Fleur, Jun 22, 2021 3 818
Soon2Bemarried
When Did You See Your Spouse On Your Wedding Day?
Soon2Bemarried, on June 17, 2021 at 1:50 PM

Did you wait to see each other at the aisle or did you get a sneak peek of your spouse before your ceremony began? Photographer is now asking us which we prefer for portraits and I’m undecided.

Ava, Jun 22, 2021 24 963 1
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Deciding between 2 venues
Stevie, on June 21, 2021 at 10:11 PM

Hi! My Fiance and I are having a lot of trouble deciding between 2 venues we like. Our wedding is next July, but summer weddings get booked fast, so we're hoping to settle on a place a year in...

Hanna, Jun 22, 2021 7 507
Briana
Wedding Invitation format!
Briana, on June 21, 2021 at 9:02 PM

Hi everyone! 10/31/21 wedding here! We are trying to make our wedding invitations and need help picking out the wording for the invite. Any suggestions? Together with their families Briana &...

SLY, Jun 22, 2021 5 618
Sandra
Stress Dreams!
Sandra, on May 31, 2021 at 9:24 AM

Please share your ridiculous wedding stress dreams! I get them on the regular. Last night I dreamt that I forgot my wedding dress and wore joggers down the aisle instead. 🙄😂 Let’s hear ‘em!

Sandra, Jun 22, 2021 17 182
Gwendolyn
Have any of you used Classic Photographers?
Gwendolyn, on June 21, 2021 at 10:23 AM

I'm 28(!) days out now, and among some other chaos (my pastry chef just resigned on Friday, leaving me with no cake) I haven't yet heard from CP. I did my worksheet a few months ago, and have updated...

Gwendolyn, Jun 21, 2021 2 504
Brittany
Super affordable Wedding?
Brittany, on March 3, 2021 at 11:27 AM

So I’m recently engaged. We wanted to get married in April 2022. We aren’t super picky about where we have our wedding, as long as it isn’t a courthouse. But here’s the problem: we are really trying...

DiLecia, Jun 21, 2021 40 2,187
Samantha
Choosing a date to honor another couple
Samantha, on June 21, 2021 at 5:02 PM

I just got back from a lovely wedding today, fh’s niece. I wondered why they had it on a Monday, but found out at the rehearsal dinner last night - it’s also the groom’s parents 35th anniversary! I...

Rosie, Jun 21, 2021 5 207
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Did you settle when choosing a venue?
H, on November 8, 2017 at 10:34 AM

Did you find that you settled when choosing a wedding venue? I'm realizing that what my PERFECT DAY entails is not possible either because it's impractical, doesn't exist, or is $500 per person...

Lina, Jun 21, 2021 84 2,946
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Bridesmaid proposal - not located in the same state
Jess, on June 20, 2021 at 8:26 AM

All of my bridesmaids and /moh do not live near me. i was planning on sending them boxes but i wish i could be there personally .. does any one have any ideas on making it special even though i can’t...

Michelle, Jun 21, 2021 10 815
Lisa
Invitations are In!
Lisa, on June 19, 2021 at 4:07 PM

So exited that our invitations were delivered this morning! I didn’t quick assembly of all the suites and next weekend I’ll go back and double/triple check everything is right before I seal them. I...

Lisa, Jun 21, 2021 5 629
Sheree
Staples invitations
Sheree, on June 19, 2021 at 8:34 AM

Anyone used staples for their invitations? How did they turn out?

Llise, Jun 21, 2021 5 661 1
mrswinteriscoming
What is going in your ‘day of’ bag for the wedding and who is going to be responsible for it ?
mrswinteriscoming, on June 20, 2021 at 6:31 PM

What is going in your ‘day of’ bag for the wedding (i.e. bandaids, bobby pins) and who is responsible for it (including things like your phone)? I am thinking of possibly giving this all to my mother...

Llise, Jun 21, 2021 3 605 2
Michelle
Shutterfly vs Minted
Michelle, on February 21, 2014 at 7:36 PM

Thinking of getting my save the dates from these companies. Has anyone tried using these sites? If so, how satisfied were you with the quality?

Llise, Jun 21, 2021 15 3,575
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