Discussions from Planning

Can you get married at church first then have the court wedding the following week?

Hello! My fiance and I just got engaged in May 2022 and we are finally starting to talk about wedding plans. Besides setting on a date and venue, where do we even go from here? Does anyone have any...

I have my photographer for 9 hours. Should we have them come at noon, for a 3pm ceremony? That would be 12pm-9pm, seems like a long time. Or should they come before 12pm, maybe 10am, when we are...

Trying to decide if I should go with 4/20/24 or 4/27/24 for reference, the state I will be having my wedding in has legalized po.t I love the ring 4/20/24 but I’m unsure if people around my age will...

I’m in a wedding I ordered the dress ( I hate) was told I can wear any shoe I want. Had my dress fitted for three inch heels. Then the bride decided she wants us all in flats. It’s going to cost me...

Is anyone getting a day of coordinator? I’m on the fence about it. With our venue, they will set up all the tables, chairs, and linens inside the reception as well as the benches outside for the...

Inflation sucks. With the increase in price of everything, my fiancé and I are starting to rethink our wedding plans. An idea I came up with is a wedding weekend - rent a mansion, invite our closest...

Hey! I know it's a ways away, but I am super excited about my Nov. 4 2022 wedding! I just wanted to give a shout-out to all of you! Less than a year and a half away!

First, I should mention that we are (very young!) "sixty-somethings", married 38 years, who are planning a "convalidation" ceremony. This is a Catholic marriage service for couples who were married...

We're getting ready to taste test soon (YUM) and I was just wondering if anyone had gone the sheet cake route? I've heard of people doing a nice looking very small sort of top layer for bride and...

My fiancé and I put a deposit down on our venue a while back but due to recent family issues and the wedding creeping up there in price we are looking to do a destination wedding instead. We are not...

I have 13 bridesmaids but my alter isn’t very big so what alternatives do I have because I don’t think it’s enough room for everyone to stand up there.

How early is too early to send out our save the date invitations? Our wedding isn't until October 26, 2024 & we are getting our engagement photos done next week. I really wanted to get married in...

So the venue that I absolutely want has 2 available dates in the Spring season. The two dates are. April 6th 2024 Or May 4th, 2024. The wedding will be in South Carolina. Just to give you an idea of...

FYI - sadly I learned this the hard way, but magnet save the date postage requires a $0.71 post stamp (one forever & one postcard stamp, or 1x 2 oz stamp) even if the weight is under an oz....

Our time is coming quick! My wedding is 10/07/2022 and I feel like all the little details are consuming me. When is your big day? How are you all doing? What final touches are you working on? Use this...

So my fiancé and I are out about 11 months from our wedding in October. Unfortunately most times when I talk with my mom it somehow turns into an argument. I don't even bring it up. I did before at...

Hey everyone! I just wanted to vent. We are getting married in Jamaica in December and we actually hired a photographer who was based in Vermont. We hired her because we originally going to get...

Do you put the exact ceremony start time in the invitations? Or 15-30 minutes before? Lol I know a lot of people are puntual, but just in case you have other guests from other culture other than...

Who is have a December wedding with Christmas trees