Planning My Own Bridal Shower

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We were out with a good friend for his birthday. Actually, the person who is best man in our wedding and gave me the nickname pancakes. He is our longest friend. So I felt guilty I was depressed at his birthday because all of this was going on. And it's hard since she lies so much. I never told her my MOH can't plan a bridal shower. I told my sister to not plan the shower many times but she demanded. This is why I always give into them because it's much less hassle than saying maybe we should look at it another way. My whole life my mother and two of my sisters have been like this. My MOH was texting me screenshots of their convo so it proved (not that I needed proof) that my sister was lying about what my MOH told her and how she was talking to her. She was actually nice the entire time and never called her any names. Idk. I just feel so bad for involving my MOH and I just want to crawl under a rock. Back to hating the shower that's going to happen for my family and having to plan it all. Need to find food places tomorrow. Sigh. Another glorious day in the life of Pancakes. Good ol diplomatic Pancakes.

I'm so sorry I just read all of that. I think your sister needs meds. Seriously, just tell her to cancel it. Sounds like you can't win either way, so just have her cancel it on her end and let your MOH take the lead. You'll have a better time in the end. Stand up for yourself and do what you want and what will make you the most happy. BIG HUGS.

Stand up for yourself Pancakes!! Tell her you wont show..you dont want to hear any more bs about your friends..Your sister doesn't know how to shut up or take no for an answer..tell her to return the shit..You don't deserve all of this.

Christ. I would tell her to do whatever she wants and then not show up lol