No Sex Before Marriage

Kaylen, that is not the definition of adultery. If you're going to use the bible as a rational for you behaviour, at least me up to speed with it.

Personally, I don't care what you do, but if you have ALREADY had relations, it's beyond my understanding why you'd stop in the name of God. Because it's kinda random.

God is not a he.

It's up to the couple.I think it would be so cool if my fiance and I could withhold sex until wedding night, it would just make it extra special. I just don't think either of us will beable to stop for 6 months lol

@PressTheStarKey I just cried at your comment. We need to be friends lol

New best friends, yo. I gotchu @Future Mrs. Barton.

Sure, as long as you've already tested it out, do what you want to do. I personally think compatibility is extremely important so I would never commit to someone unless the chemistry was there. In fact, that is the main thing that prevented me from getting married until now (well, one month from today). I was attracted to jerks and not attracted to nice guys who would make good husband material. I finally found my unicorn.

Hmm all of this talk is making me think I need to get off ww, go find FH, and get off something else...

FH and I have been together for almost 4 years... we've been rabbits lol... however to build the intimacy during our honeymoon we just decided to wait until we're married to have sex again. We haven't had sex since 2016!! Haha

So my mom always said that you should test drive before you're married including living together and having sex. Way less surprises this way. FH and I are already completely comfortable together and enjoy every aspect of our relationship including sex. And knowing us....both of us will be way too exhausted and intoxicated to have great sex on our wedding night haha.

I'm going to assume @Kaylen found a dictionary and is quietly excusing herself from the conversation.

Yes, my fiance and I have. We have also shared this with close friends who we can rely on to understand our decision. They also keep us accountable. It's not easy, but we are happy with our choice.

@Amanda, how do your friends hold you accountable?

FH is actually the person I lost my virginity to

No, it's an important connection for us. There is really no right or wrong answer to this because every couple is different.

BeachDreams, she's excluding herself from this narrative TSwift style.

@ beach dreams: well, first of all, they ask us, lol! My MOH sends me funny reminder quotes as well.

FH and I are also waiting, religious purposes. I do not think it makes us any less compatible as a couple than people who have sex. It's a choice we both made willingly.

Just don't have anything else to say Had I known answering the OP's post would have caused this much cattiness I wouldn't have said anything at all. It's 10000% ok if you don't agree with the mutual decision my FH and I have made but, there's no need to be so rude about it.

@Greenebunny, I envisioned someone with a spray bottle filled with water.

@green bunny: lol