My third marriage and his first

20 years in this bussiness and I would suggest asking your fiance what he would like. With this being your third, share his exspectations. It's still okay to wear white, althought there are alot of colored wedding dresses this season. You want to be comfortable with what you and your wedding party are wearing and that will show with your guest and make them comforatable and relaxed as well.

With the ceremony being small, I don't forsee any problems being tacky or offensive. Good Luck, Terilyn Howell

I love new beginnings! I say make your last wedding your favorite wedding. AND I agree with the other poster - make sure its his last, best wedding, too. Unless he wants all the traditional elements, I would recommend keeping a tightly focused theme (like the gourmet bride on this site whose reception is a 7 course feast, or the one who loves travel & is having a travel themed event.)