I was asked to be a bridesmaid but my husband is not invited to the wedding!

Yikes. I would not attend the wedding even as a guest. I would also count this as a blessing since she's already showing signs of a bridezilla. You might have saved yourself from a lot of stress by getting out of this now.

Married pregnant women always get a plus one.

That is insane. I would decline. There's no way I would go anywhere without my hubby!

Haven't read other comments, but she is so completely in the wrong.

But she's letting the other bridesmaids bring their spouse?

Totally ridiculous.

#byefelicia

Uhm she sounds like the selfish one! Regardless of having a small wedding, ALL bridal party members should be allowed to invite a date, ESPECIALLY their husband.

That is awful! I get cutting costs but come on now, no real friend would put you in that situation!

There is nothing wrong with you declining. I would definitely feel the same way as you if I were in your shoes.

I wouldn't do it

You absolutely did the right thing backing out! There are other ways to "cut cost" with the guest list. If she was really your friend, she wouldn't have put you in this position.

To cut costs, she should have just nixed the bridal party all together. Instead of insulting her "friend" and probably ruining whatever friendship yall had.

She sounds awful. I'm so glad you stood up to her!

I think she's crazy, and doesn't realize that when you marry, you are ONE.

I think I feel sorry for the groom, and hope he's got a pre-nup.

Even if you were single you should get a plus one, especially being in the BP. Let alone married. and pregnant. Baiiiiii Felicia lol

I wouldn't care if she had a coronary and died right there at your feet! I get that it's your wedding day and you want certain folks around you, but be mindful of the folks you ask..it's not like she didn't know your situation..to me..not such a good friend if she hot cuz you got sense enough to say no..I'm good!

@Richard is on a role today.

You did absolutely NOTHING wrong. Unless you are leaving out some craziness. But I doubt it. there is enough craziness on her side.

Decline that is extremely rude!!!! She is clearly having a bridezilla moment and her stress was taken out on you! There is NO reason for your husband not to be included. I wouldn't even come to the wedding without my hubby!!!! This wedding party sounds like it will be drama drama and more drama. You don't need that while your pregnant!!