I was asked to be a bridesmaid but my husband is not invited to the wedding!

I'm a bridesmaid in a wedding next week in a smaller wedding of 70 people and my FH who lives in another state that the bride has never even met is invited! So... I would definitely decline.

Hell to the naw naw naw

Actually I would not GO to a wedding that my husband was not invited to.... I think this girl needs a reality check.....

You're not the one being selfish. I wouldn't even feel bad about declining.

I think you did the right thing by declining. Why are other BP members allowed to bring their husbands but not you? Honestly, I wouldn't even go after all she did/said.

Stand by your man and decline this 'honor'.

Why the hell can the other bridesmaid bring their husbands but not you? That's just straight rude. I'm sorry dear but stick to your decision to decline.

Your friend is a shitty friend. It is completely inappropriate for her to not invite your husband. You were right to decline not only bring a BM but you should also not attend the wedding!

Omg no. That's a horrible thing to do to to you. I'm sorry that happened. I'd decline. How can she expect you to celebrate her union when she's disrespecting yours?

You're 100% correct.

Your friend needs a serious reality check.

This would be a friendship ending move if someone did that to me. I can only imagine what other delightfully rude antics she has in store for her wedding.

How shitty of her. You were completely right to back out.

You're right to decline!

I also think you did the right thing. She was being incredibly rude and inconsiderate by not planning to invite your husband. It's ridiculous for her to want you to celebrate her marriage, but not be willing to respect yours.

Leaving your pregnancy out of it, she's in the wrong. Putting it back into consideration, your husband would need to be there with you from a practical standpoint. At that stage of your pregnancy, it would be awesome if your husband could be with you in case you need anything to stay comfortable. And on the off chance that something happened and you needed to go to the hospital? He wouldn't be there to take you. She's the one being selfish and unreasonable. Not you.

Yeah I call BS.

You're totally right here. Your "friend" is rude and insensitive.

I would decline also if I didn't really know anybody. Especially being pregnant and married for 7 years.

All hail King Richard. Lmao!

Yeah, OP, you're friend is no friend at all. He's not even a plus one - he's your spouse! It shouldn't have even been a thought to scratch him from the guest list. You two are all our nothing.

Please keep us updated on progress with this bridezilla-to-be. I'm really curious how this situation ultimately turns out.

It is completely insane of her to call you selfish over this. She is disrespecting your marriage but you're supposed to stand up for hers?

Did this bridezilla behavior just pop out or has she always been a little self centered? I'm guessing the latter. So glad you declined!

Thanks but no thanks! I can't believe she called you selfish. That's a hoot.