So as it turns out, YES, DF did pick the exact same day for our wedding that he had picked for his and CEF (Cheating Ex Fiancee)
I mentioned this to F-MIL and she thought it was odd that we had so many similarities. I was able to find out that not only was it the same day BUT ALSO same location, same theme, and same wedding colors.
I raised hell. If there was ever a time I felt like a justified bridezilla, it was yesterday.
I'm not her replacement or substitution and there is no way in HELL i am going to mirror what they planned together. RAWR I have no clue how im going to adjust this considering i love everything we planned so far.
He just lost all say in the wedding planning and he knows it.