Have 6 maids and men... no juniors... kinda wish now that I didn't ask so many people... it gets expensive... you have to buy them gifts... provide a limo for them...
3-4 guys and 3-4 girls - one of the girls I want as a BM lives in Greece and I don't want to pressure her. I don't want juniors. I will lobby hard to not even have a flower girl or ringbearer. I just think small children are unpredictable at best and cranky at worst.
0! I do have a group of my girls that will be recognized. they will all be dressed in different deep purple dresses that they choose themselves. i will include them in my program as my "dazzling dames". basically my bridesmaids, but my fh doesn't have friends, so i figured this was the easiest.
Mellojean if i could get a do-over, i think i wouldn't have any. FH has way more friends than i'd want to have in the wedding party. it was very difficult for him to find a cut-off point so we just decided to do siblings only that way he didn't have to choose between friends.