Got the news from a bridesmaid that she just found out she is pregnant. Not planned at all. She was so nervous to tell me. I would never not want her in the wedding! I want her in it because I love her and can't imagine her not being in my wedding! I told her that it is up to here....thats pretty darn far along in a pregnancy to be in a wedding! Has anybody else ever had a bridesmaid TOTALLY pregnant for your wedding? What did you do? Dresses etc....