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Have you had a ‘zilla moment?

Lynnie, on January 21, 2020 at 11:27 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 64
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Even the most relaxed of couples can get overwhelmed and hit a wedding planning wall! Has there been a part of wedding planning that has turned you into a bridezilla or groomzilla?


Have you had a ‘zilla moment? Innocent or guilty??


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Latest activity by Tiffany, on June 27, 2020 at 3:39 AM
  • A
    Devoted October 2020
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    I don’t think I have (yet?) but my FW has gotten into rather stubborn arguments with her family about the guest list!
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    A few little ones. One was when I was trying to make a payment to my venue and couldn't get a hold of the coordinator who takes care of the payment. I was so frustrated that I wanted to change venues. My FH talked me out of it. She has been much better lately but I think it's because we are now closer to the wedding date.

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  • Ashley
    Devoted July 2021
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    The most "'zilla moment" I've had through the whole process was when my sister asked if her boyfriend could wear jeans (FH and I are traditional in the fact that you do not wear jeans to a wedding. Ever.) and when she asked if they could bring her boyfriends son. We are having an adults only ceremony and reception. So I had to put my foot down a little there, but I don't really feel that bad since she is my sister. She's used to me telling her what to do lol

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  • Merline
    Super February 2020
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    I did maybe once or twice, but it was justified!

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    I definitely have not. Innocent!! It's stressful and some things have been changed around but I haven't had a 'zilla moment.

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  • H
    Just Said Yes May 2020
    Hailey ·
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    I’ve had a couple. We signed with a DJ at an expo only for them to put down the wrong year and fall through and she had read my text but not responded so my text had a touch of zilla to get the response😳


    The only other time it happened we were talking about how to get my family there. To get to the location you have to go across a ferry and a good chunk of my family lives in a different state and my dad was wanting to make it as easy as possible, going well out of the way and costing us money so I put my foot down and said “if it’s too ‘difficult’ to sit on a ferry for 10 minutes and then drive a little further, they can just not come. I don’t even care if they are there.”
    I feel my moments are justified but I definitely had to be a little hard to get it
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  • Chesney
    Savvy April 2021
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    Not yet but I know there will be my moments. I also have some amazing bridesmaids and my mom to help me through it all! I am praying I dont but you never know!
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  • Jeanette
    Expert July 2022
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    Innocent! Too early still Smiley xd

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  • Kayla
    Devoted November 2020
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    Guilty. And looking back I feel like it was only partially justified. FH and I had picked a venue, an absolutely gorgeous barn with a huge deck and three story barn wall in the ceremony area (perfect for pics). It was far enough out we really didn't talk to them much as it wasn't close enough to really plan anything. I was scrolling on Facebook one night and I see a video that they shared from a wedding. It looked really dark, and then I noticed they had built a huge roof over the deck. I flipped. Especially when the venue owner told me I couldn't see it for another six months. Needless to say, we got in the next day and I got my full deposit back.

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  • Nina Arszulowicz
    Savvy September 2020
    Nina Arszulowicz ·
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    Haven’t done this yet
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  • Breanna
    Devoted September 2020
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    I've been pretty organized and it has helped me be stress free. The only type of 'zilla moment I've had was when my fiance's family tried taking over in the planning and changing what we've already decided on because it wasn't to their liking. Then I had a bit of a moment, but I think that's pretty justifiable.
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  • Dulcena
    Savvy September 2021
    Dulcena ·
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    No zilla moment for me. But my fiancee? Yes! I call him groomzilla.

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  • Erin
    VIP December 2020
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    Kinda. My FH told me he wanted to wear converse with his suit and I kinda flipped...
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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
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    Innocent. I do check in with myself when I think I may be getting too caught up in things. So far, so good.

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  • Jasmine
    Devoted May 2021
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    I think I have and I'm probably going to have another moment with the same person, because their attitude is pretty selfish right now.

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  • Tamera
    Expert May 2020
    Tamera ·
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    Pretty sure I'm innocent! It has been smooth sailing so far.

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  • Kaylynn
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kaylynn ·
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    Um yeah once with our wedding party- deciding who should be in it. I wanted my 3 best girlfriends and my fiance wanted our siblings- his two brothers and my two sisters. He said there was absolutely no way he wanted to get married without his brothers and I said I didnt want my sisters unless I had my 3 best friends and so we compromised and we have both siblings and 3 friends on both sides so it worked out but it was a fight for about a week.
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  • A
    Dedicated October 2020
    Adriana ·
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    I had a little bit of a moment when I found out the venue we wanted got booked for our date, but other than that I’ve kept my cool lol
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  • Fenja
    VIP August 2021
    Fenja ·
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    Innocent! But that might change Smiley xd

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  • K
    Expert February 2020
    Kristina ·
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    I don't think so, but my mom and FH would have a better idea. I feel like I have been pretty laid back

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