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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Have you had a ‘zilla moment?

Lynnie, on January 21, 2020 at 11:27 AM

Posted in Community Conversations 64

Even the most relaxed of couples can get overwhelmed and hit a wedding planning wall! Has there been a part of wedding planning that has turned you into a bridezilla or groomzilla? Have you had a ‘zilla moment? Innocent or guilty?? Next Question: Are you more excited for the honeymoon than the...

Even the most relaxed of couples can get overwhelmed and hit a wedding planning wall! Has there been a part of wedding planning that has turned you into a bridezilla or groomzilla?


Have you had a ‘zilla moment? Innocent or guilty??


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Next Question: Are you more excited for the honeymoon than the wedding?

Back to the Beginning: Innocent or Guilty?

64 Comments

  • Janieva
    Dedicated November 2021
    Janieva ·
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    Surprisingly no, I do t really find the need to since I've planned so far in advance and will tend to go with the flow
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  • S
    Savvy September 2021
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    Not really but I'm not stressed with the planning outside of my mom not being on board and stating I'm moving too fast with the planning. I'm ~230 days out and she doesn't think booking a venue or looking at photographers is needed. But that's why my MOH is good for reminding me it's my day and not my mom's.

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  • Crystal
    Devoted September 2021
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    Yes, I’m not proud of it but my cousin got engaged after us and picked a date before ours and was complaining about the stress... I sorta snapped a little. I was also a little zilla when she asked to use my photographer too. (It’s all sorted out now we’re all good)
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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
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    Yes slightly with some frustrations occurring with one of FH's aunt. But honestly, I have been pretty chill.

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  • Jessica
    Expert February 2020
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    I don't know if I would call it a 'zilla moment but some people are asking why they have to RSVP online when they can just tell me in person so I have to explain that it's easier if they just do because I have more important things to do than RSVP for people or keep track in my head.

    It's down to the last month though so there's still plenty of time for me to go mad.

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  • Lauren
    Dedicated September 2021
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    I have had a few mini meltdowns so far. The first was when one of my bridesmaids asked why I wasn't inviting children (she doesn't even have kids). The most recent when I was told I had to have a fancy cake, I guess the one I picked out was "too simple" for my mom and future mother-in-law. I felt like because I compromised on a dress they wanted, they shouldn't have a say with the cake.

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  • Kelli
    Dedicated September 2021
    Kelli ·
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    Its overwhelming sometimes but I dont really freak out over anything anyway so this is no different.
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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    I definitely was stressed to the max. But i don't ever remember having that "bridezilla" moment

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  • Abby
    Dedicated October 2020
    Abby ·
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    Thankfully no! I can have a bad temper and my parents and I butt heads a lot but everything has gone smoothly so far 😅
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  • Mia
    Dedicated July 2020
    Mia ·
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    I have been a bridezilla, I feel like I'm planning this whole thing by myself so I went off on my fiance, cuz he's not as involved as I'd like him to be, so guilty again lol
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  • Leighanna
    Dedicated October 2021
    Leighanna ·
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    Not really. I’m sure I’ll have at least one as the date gets closer.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Pretty sure I had some. But I wanna believe they were justified
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  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    All of the guys in the wedding insisted they would have time to drink all morning/afternoon up until our 5:30 wedding.. to them there was no such thing as needing to get ready or take pictures.

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  • Stephanie
    Super September 2021
    Stephanie ·
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    OMG! yes i have mini zilla moments here and there but they arent super bad, just when im stressed out but my loving FH talks me down lol

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  • T&d
    Savvy October 2020
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    Innocent ✋
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  • Kendra
    Devoted August 2020
    Kendra ·
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    I don't think so. If anything, I've gotten stressed out and broken down into tears. But no anger yet haha.

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  • Lauren
    Savvy October 2020
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    Nope! Keeping that spirit FAAARRR away from me! 😂😂 I want a stress free time planning and I told my bridesmaids that if they even see me getting a touch of bridezilla in me, they can tie me to a chair and do an intervention. 😆😆
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  • Meagan
    Dedicated July 2021
    Meagan ·
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    I don't think I have, but I'm less than 2 months away from the wedding and getting a little stressed so you never know lol
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  • Jamie
    Expert May 2020
    Jamie ·
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    I've definitely felt the stress and I've cried several times to my fiance. I don't think I've had a full-blown 'zilla moment but I can totally understand why people do!
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  • Kimberly
    Dedicated October 2020
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    Innocent .. but i will say I know what I want and how I want it.

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