Family and Relationships
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I get married on Friday, and FH's family are absolutely taking all enjoyment out of it and I just want to get to the wedding and have all this planning be over with. Last night my FFIL asked if he...
I had gotten some news from my mom that is not sitting easy with me. I am the first born and have never been officially married but my sister has been 2 this would have been her 3rd and yes my mom has...
I understand I can’t get rid of the mother of fiancés child and she isn’t full of drama or anything they are just really close. When he refers to his family he also includes her and her kids(who are...
What to do when you have a relative with money and they seem to just keep talking about the money they are putting forward for your wedding? I love my family, but one individual always seems to try to...
I’m really struggling with wedding planning. My partner is a full time student in an intensive nursing program and is about to take the NCLEX (the huge exam to become a certified RN), so he helps when...
Hello This is such a touchy topic right now for me and I can't stop crying. I know there are many opinions that will be on this topic, but I will just start. I fell in love with an immigrant from...
I think I'm just here to vent. I'm having a destination wedding next year, and my mother (who helped pay!) gave me a list of people to invite that were her cousins, friends, etc. I vetoed some of them...
For reference to this long rant (buckle up), I have a first cousin who I used to be extremely close to. We are the same age, we went to the same college, did literally everything together. She started...
My bridal shower was this weekend and it was absolutely beautiful! My MOH and mom did a wonderful job, and were even able to pull off a surprise guest that I didn't think was going to be able to make...
Hi! I really need advice on this so if you have any good and helpful advice it would be a huge help! I got engaged to my fiancé July of this year (2022) and he comes from a more wealthy background....
So my Fiance has a daughter 17 and she want to be the made of honor or best man but OK I do have an issue with that 1, she never bothers with her dad,2 blocks him on everything, 3 she acting like a...
I can't be the only one struggling with internal family feuds, flakey parents, and giving everyone a plus one, even when I don't particularly like them, am I? I am super struggling with placing...
I want to share a piece of advice from my financial advisor. Instead of completely combining finances, keep them separate and create a joint account for you and your partner. That's what we do and it...
Link to my pervious post about the situation:...
We're getting married in 16 short days, but our social calendar for weddings appears to be filling up so quickly I'm getting nervous that we're not going to be able to do them all! We're at that age...
More just me venting my insecurities lol. So...when my fiancé I and first met, we didn't know we had an age gap. He was really mature, patient, and kind. And we got all of each other's pop culture...
So my fiancé and I are having a destination wedding in France next summer. We got engaged in May of 2021 and gave everyone a two year notice of when our wedding will be and to plan accordingly. Two...
I’m getting married next year to my amazing fiancé. My father originally offered to pay for whatever I wanted, which was such a nice gesture. My father was absent until I was 11 but when he came into...
My fiance proposed to me in October of 2021 a few months after his dad (future FIL) proposed to his s/o. Now this past weekend my fiance's mom (my future MIL) got engaged. Our wedding date is set for...
So my mom has graciously offered to help pay for our wedding but now she has fought me every step of the way making the entire planning process completely and utterly miserable. so our latest issue...