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Jayla
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Do you talk about your wedding nonstop?

Jayla, on September 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 52

Since you started planning, do you find yourself talking about your wedding nonstop to anyone who will listen? Are you innocent or guilty?

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52 Comments

Latest activity by Natalia, on June 14, 2019 at 4:40 PM
  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    Only with my mom but she's normally the one who brings it up. I try not to talk about it with anyone other than my FH unless they ask me directly about the wedding.
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  • Sandyfish
    Super August 2017
    Sandyfish ·
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    When I got engaged, I hated talking about my wedding. It was about the only thing someone wanted to talk about.
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  • Aszha
    Savvy October 2018
    Aszha ·
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    It’s so hard not to!! That’s really the only thing people want to talk about; i really trynti avoid it!
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    I find that I never actually bring it up but once people I’m talking to start talking about it (frequently) I find that I get sucked in and start talking about it too lol
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  • Caitlin
    Dedicated November 2019
    Caitlin ·
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    I try not to but the conversation comes up frequently because everybody asks us how the wedding planning is going. My mom and I talk about it a lot but it's mainly because she enjoys planning and DIY projects.

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Lol!!! It's so easy to get sucked in! Do you get a lot of questions about your planning or are people sharing tons of advice?

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Will your mom help with any of the decor? Is she going to take on a DIY project for your wedding?

    Your profile pic is awesome by the way!!!!!!!

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  • FutureMrsR
    Dedicated October 2018
    FutureMrsR ·
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    No, I prefer not to talk about it haha

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  • Jenna
    Savvy October 2019
    Jenna ·
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    I don't like to talk about it unless someone else brings it up. I don't want to annoy anyone with all the wedding talk

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  • Tpatb
    Master August 2019
    Tpatb ·
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    I was so exacted when I got engaged that I wanted to share w/ any & everyone. Now, I honestly try to be discreet whether someone asks or not bc I ran into problems w/ random people wanting/expecting invitations & a host of other problems.
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  • FutureMrsB
    Expert March 2019
    FutureMrsB ·
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    Not really. Mostly to my FH & those helping. His mother brings it up a lot. I am trying to do most of it on my own. Smiley smile

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  • Mrs Sullivan
    Expert June 2019
    Mrs Sullivan ·
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    I am keeping the details of my wedding pretty tightly sealed. We have no problem talking what days events are on, but decor, my dress, color scheme, flowers, etc. we are keeping on the hush hush

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  • AlmostAMurphy
    Devoted November 2018
    AlmostAMurphy ·
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    Guilty. I don’t mean to, but it always comes up in conversation.
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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    I never thought about that but being discreet about it makes total sense!

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Do you want everything to be a surprise for your guests, or are you trying to avoid unsolicited advice?

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  • Nicole
    Beginner November 2018
    Nicole ·
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    I am in the middle on this question lol... I try not to be over the top! "Try" is the key word!!! Smiley smile

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  • Bridget
    VIP August 2019
    Bridget ·
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    I Try sooo hard not too! Im in nursing school and two of my friends in the class just got married this summer so I'll ask them questions but I try to watch it so I'm not over doing it and like boring everyone around me lol

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  • Happy Hedgie
    VIP September 2018
    Happy Hedgie ·
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    I never bring up the wedding (except to FH) and only discuss it if someone directly asks me about it. Even then, I try and give a vague answer if I know they are only asking out of obligation. I do not want to annoy or bore people. I will share more information with the few people I know actually care and who ask detailed questions instead of just how's planning.

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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    I love talking about it but I only say something if someone asks. Which is hard and that’s why I spend so much time on here lol
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  • D
    Just Said Yes January 2020
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    Guilty!! But I’ve been trying not to, because I feel like nobody shares in the excitement, other than our parents..
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