So my girls and I went shopping last weekend for their dresses. My MOH had asked me a while back if she could wear something slightly different than the rest of the girls. I told her I was open to it but I would have to approve it first. So we found 2 dresses that we really liked, both very similar, same fabric, and same designer. She loves the one on the right in burgundy (we would add a lace slip to the slit in the skirt and lower it to the knee) and honestly so do I but the other 4 all said they would be more comfortable in gray one ( it would also be in burgundy but I don't have a picture in the right color). The main differences are the gray one has the cross across the neck line which is mimicked with the straps in the back and the top has small beads (sparkle) over the lace where the burgundy one has lace across the back, no X, and the slit. The issue is my mother, she is a bit old fashioned and is paying for the majority of the wedding. She is concerned that it won't look right (mostly because she has never been to a wedding with the girls in different dresses and she is also partial to the gray one). Does anyone have pics from their weddings where they did something similar that you can share so I can show her it'll look beautiful and that I'm not crazy?