Bestman wants to propose at my wedding

It's inappropriate, you should make no bones abut that.

If it was a bestie or a couple we were super close with I'd be excited to play a part in that! But you said you've only met him once and I'm guessing the gf never so I'd say no too lol

No!! A millions times no. The uncle may not get it but he is stealing the attention away from you on YOUR DAY. I'm sure he thinks this proposal is all 'romantical and stuff' too. He needs to come up with something special just for him and his gf--not usurp your special day. And I'd bet the gf wouldn't like this idea either, I'm sure she doesn't want to feel embarrassed when she thinks back on her proposal--because if my FH did this at someone's wedding, I'd be MORTIFIED.

I'd handle it by telling the uncle that you took an opinion poll of future and former brides on wedding website and 95% thought this was a bad proposal idea because no girl wants to steal the thunder out from under another girl's wedding day. Once he learns that A LOT of other brides would not like this or want it, I bet he changes his mind real quick!

No for that. That's your day, not theirs.

I would die... that is so disrespectful

No. Not nice. Takes away from your day. Just not nice. I didn't know people actually thought that's a good idea.

Nope. He wants the beautiful backdrop you paid for surrounded by all of the guests you paid to host? Maybe if he put half on it.

Going off on a tangent here but I seriously read that as "Batman wants to propose..." for a second there lol. Just had to share that.

I haven't read past the first page of comments but you should definitely tell him that you're not okay with his idea. Maybe you can suggest that his girlfriend would feel uncomfortable if he proposed during someone else's wedding?

I also read it as batman for some reason. But no. No. No. I mean what if she says no? What if she hates this idea? Nope.

I'm sorry FH didn't say no for you, kinda puts you in a bad spot. I'd tel him to tell his BEst Man that it's a bad idea.

I wouldn't allow it. It's your day and it should be about just the two of you. Politely tell him no.

Hmm NO!

I read this as batman wants to propose at my wedding.

I would not be happy. That's your day!

NO WAY. It would be a cold day in hell. A frigid feezing day. I'd be pissed. My wedding is my day.. spent thousands of dollars and waited my whole life and I would not be okay with it being overshadowed with a proposal. He can do it after they get home for your wedding.

I truly hope he doesn't just do it anyway.. this topic just fires me up so much lol.. There's 364 other days in the year and he has to pick YOUR special day? Nononono.

I read the title, and was thinking, the best man wants to propose to her at her wedding? WTF?

For me this idea would be a big NO!

I think it's especially rude since you don't know him or his girlfriend at all. If it were a super close friend and you were okay with it, then maybe. But overall, I think it's incredibly inappropriate. Will they also want you to order the champagne toast for them to celebrate?

Nope not his time.

Yeah, I don't see the problem with it. I'd actually be flattered. Love all around!!!! Like someone else said, I highly doubt YOUR day will become about them. Its sweet, people will saw awww and then back to you and your FH

If you absolutely don't want it, then say no but you don't have to agree to the whole boquet thing either. What if you agree but ask him to wait until the end