Bestman wants to propose at my wedding

I was asked by someone how I would react of I was proposed to at someone's wedding in a scenario like this. I assumed the whole thing was a big joke, and said that I would say no if anyone did this. I take the angle that his fiance to be would probably appreciate a day all her own to get engaged, rather than sharing it. What makes him so sure she'll even like it ?

Personally I feel that it is rude to steal someones special moment. it is your wedding people are there for you are the center of attraction, but if your uncle purposes he will get all the attention.

And there are lots of things that can go wrong, which can spoil your wedding experience.

If the bouquet doesn't lands into her hands that will potential be a bummer for your uncle.

If she rejects the proposal that will also not serve good for the wedding, as everyone will be joyous for the wedding and the sudden proposal but if it fails the joy will be gone for a moment which just kills the festive spirit of the crowed.

I watched a video on Facebook of this. The bride acted like she was going to throw the bouquet but then turns and hands it to the unsuspecting person. It's cute. But me personally I'd punch somebody in the throat.

Wtf. . . What is wrong with people......

No way! This is your day, they have 364 other days to choose from!

I wouldn't be okay with it, this is your day, not there's!

Not only no for you but I wouldn't want to be her getting proposed to at someone else's wedding. I would be embarrassed and I would feel it wasn't special and would take away from both your day any my day. He could plan something sweet for the next day and do it then

I would suggest telling him to do it before the wedding, then they have all weekend to celebrate with friends and family but the spotlight is still on you. But I can totally see if you would even want that

Why can't he take her outside during the sunset and propose alone and day something cheesy like "I want a beautiful wedding like this for when we get married" personally I would hate all that attention on me and this day is really about you

No. It would be upsetting to me! Have him do it after the wedding or before but not during!

Personally it wouldn't bother me, I don't particularly care about being the center or attention. But I would have felt uncomfortable if FH purposed in front of a bunch of people. I think it's a probably a terrible idea and you should tell them no.

NOPE! It's your wedding and YOUR DAY!

I am in the nope camp also. It is disrespectful of him to horn in on your wedding day, and I am betting his soon to be fiancé would be mortified.

Yeah I would have a problem with that. It's my day and you are taking it away from me uh no.

That would be a big fat HECK NO from me.

Yeah... I would say no. It's your day.

We've all seen videos of this online... the general consensus is "TACKY and RUDE". I'd say No, if for no other reason than I wouldn't want my guests gossiping about how tacky is it all night. So many people will approach you with "Did you plan that? What did you think when that happen?" etc

Nope.

Gross.

Nope, I would definitely not be okay with that... especially when you have only met the uncle once and I'm assuming you've never met the girlfriend. Tell him to do it the next day ... and honestly, would this girl really want to get engaged in front of a whole bunch of people she doesn't know? I know I wouldn't... (also .. i apologize if these points have already been brought up but I didn't read all 8 pages!)