Bachelor party at a strip club. Opinions?

It doesn't bother me. FH is getting a Vegas Bach party. I'm sure that's what they'll do. I go to strip clubs with him, though.

He's going to a strip club. Whatever. It doesn't bother me. He's going to come home to me and he won't do anything stupid. I totally trust him.

Wouldn't bother me if he did. Not really his thing, but we'll see if they go. He's headed to Chicago Friday morning with his friends.

Can I come with you Amy? I just added going to Hunkomania on my bucket list because it just sounds amaze balls

Some people are fine, some people aren't. This topic will always be split I think.

I had an ex who went to the strip clubs all the time. It never bothered me until he came home with scratches on his back, tried to say it wasn't his fault, and then later, after we broke up, told me that he in fact, did go up there on his own because she was attractive and that his friends didn't push him up there like he said.

My view has always been you can go to the strippers, but the strippers cannot come to you. (ie. - you can go to the club, strippers cannot come to the house)

However, FH is a complete germaphobe and refuses to go to the strip club so it's a moot point for me.

Nope. I don't like it.

I threw my FH a strip club bday party so I'm fine with it. Only thing those girls have that I don't is extreme upper arm strength, a less fine tuned sense of morality and silicone.

He's not going, so never had to argue about it

Don't really care if he goes or not. We are going to see hunky men take their clothes off so he can see bare breasted ladies if he wants.

He's not going. and i'm happy about it. there, i said it. if that makes me insecure so be it. i'm sure i'm not the only one.

Yep, FH is going to two strip clubs. A real one, and then for anyone familiar with Atlanta- they're hitting up the Claremont Lounge. If you haven't heard if it, you should google it. It's famous. The only "rule" I have asked for is no private dances- basically if any private parts are touched, or if he tries to hide something from me- then he's in trouble. But as long as he fills me in on the shenanigans, I'm cool!

Nope, FH gets skeeved out by them. I'm kinda glad he doesn't want to go though.

Has never bothered me either. I've got bigger boobs than a lot of them (without silicone) and if my man was to go, he comes home to me all riled up and I get lucky! Win! Win!

He's not going.

I'm pretty sure that's what him and his buddies will do. that's what he did with his cousin when is cousin got married. so i've grown to accept it, really.

Maggie B- My FH and his guys will be going to Magic City and Claremont Lounge a few days before our wedding. I told him I wanna tag along! lol

With that being said, It doesn't bother me. He's going to be coming home to me and our babies. The only thing I ask is to not have the stripper walk out of that club with them.

FH not going. He's a gamer, so he's planning some gamer thing with his nerdy friends. But in our relationship, strippers cross the boundaries. To each their own. There is nothing wrong with the women who let their men do that sort of thing. There's also nothing wrong with the women that dont. It doesnt mean we have trust issues, or controlling, or jealousy issues. It just means that in our relationship, it's not something that's needed.

I don't know what he's doing...actually his GM and him don't even know what they're going to do. I've already told him I didn't care if he went to a strip club. I've been at a strip club with him. It's nbd.

My ex did. I didn't care, but I didn't appreciate getting all the details either.

If FH were to do it though it would bother me a lot. Not sure why I have the double standard.