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AG13
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Are you playing song in the middle of your ceremony?

AG13, on March 23, 2015 at 10:35 AM Posted in Planning 0 18

I have been thinking about it and I don't think I want to play songs in the actual ceremony. Of course songs for the processional and recessional and while everyone is getting seated but not like we exchange rings lets play a whole 3 minute song and just stare at each other....Am i weird?

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Latest activity by annakay511, on March 23, 2015 at 7:28 PM
  • alyshadanielle
    Master April 2015
    alyshadanielle ·
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    We aren't playing any music during the ceremony either. Only before & after,

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  • L&G
    VIP August 2015
    L&G ·
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    I think my brother is singing When I'm 64 by the beatles, not sure if it will be while we sign things or more as a soloist Smiley smile

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  • Shauna
    VIP May 2015
    Shauna ·
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    Nope. Just before and after!

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  • L&G
    VIP August 2015
    L&G ·
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    Just a thought - you might want music while you, FH, the BM, and MOH are signing your paperwork, otherwise it will be very quiet

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  • AG13
    VIP April 2016
    AG13 ·
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    I didn't plan on signing our paperwork during the ceremony? Is that a thing?

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  • .
    Master October 2013
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    It would be weird if you DID do it, I've never heard of this.

    In the US, paperwork is not signed at the ceremony and many states don't require witnesses.

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  • L&G
    VIP August 2015
    L&G ·
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    @AG - every wedding I've been to they did? There's a signing table off to the side and the photogs take pics as everyone signs it?

    ETA: I am in Canada, so maybe its a different requirement. Here you need two witnesses at the ceremony, the paperwork gets signed then and there.

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  • AG13
    VIP April 2016
    AG13 ·
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    Ok yeah I was like what??? Lol. Yeah I have never seen that before. It must be something you guys do in Canada.

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  • Beth
    Master May 2015
    Beth ·
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    We have a song in the ceremony, but it's FH and I singing to each other. If someone else was singing/playing and you just stood there, I feel like it would be awkward. I've also seen music played when people do unity candles or unity sand. ETA: one of these days I'll learn how to type.

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  • Promike
    Master September 2015
    Promike ·
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    I think my sister might sing a song during the ceremony....I haven't decided on that yet but I don't think it is necessary. I am all for quick ceremonies Smiley smile

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  • Amber S.
    Expert June 2015
    Amber S. ·
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    We are having a soloist. He will sing a song before the bridal party enters, and will sing another song during the lighting of the unity candle. Music is very important to FH and I, so we couldn't imagine "our" ceremony without it. The songs we have chosen are very special to us.

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  • OG Kristen
    Master October 2015
    OG Kristen ·
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    Nope, not during. Our ceremony is only going to be about 15-20 minutes long though, so it won't really be needed.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I've only had several songs or musical pieces in the middle of the ceremony. Usually the cues are off and personally, i feel awkward listening to a soloist during a wedding.

    For unity candles, etc, generally, the officiant is talking while that is happening, so no need.

    And in the US, we don't usually sign paperwork during the ceremony.

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  • C&S
    VIP June 2015
    C&S ·
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    In Canada we sign the paperwork during the ceremony. During that time, we will have a reader and our DJ will play a song very quietly.

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  • Nancy Taussig
    Nancy Taussig ·
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    We had a friend sing in the middle of the ceremony -- longest 3 minutes of our lives!

    I recommend not doing it.

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  • Brittany
    Super September 2015
    Brittany ·
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    When songs happen in the middle of the ceremony, I feel like it causes a break in the flow of the wedding. I get bored after approximately 7 seconds.

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  • Kaegurl
    Master June 2014
    Kaegurl ·
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    We had music playing for the unity ceremony, but we had musicians so once we were finished they were able to end the must on the right note so to speak.

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
    annakay511 ·
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    We're not having any music during the ceremony. We want our ceremony to be short and sweet!

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